I have the second long term boyfriend that I have had since being a nanny. The first boyfriend was white. It was normal for him to pick me up at the house, come to the door, etc. I am a live-in.
I have been seeing this guy for 3 months and only recently let him have my address, pick me up at my house. My employer told me she would "prefer" if I would meet him at our destination and that she didn't want any "strange men" coming to her house.
What do I say to this? She had no problems when my White boyfriend came to the house. What gives them the right? Since I live here, don't I have rights as a tenant? When you are a nanny, dating is always hard because you have to meet at a destination first and for the longest time. I like being picked up and having a door held open for me. I know this is just because he is black!
I have been seeing this guy for 3 months and only recently let him have my address, pick me up at my house. My employer told me she would "prefer" if I would meet him at our destination and that she didn't want any "strange men" coming to her house.
What do I say to this? She had no problems when my White boyfriend came to the house. What gives them the right? Since I live here, don't I have rights as a tenant? When you are a nanny, dating is always hard because you have to meet at a destination first and for the longest time. I like being picked up and having a door held open for me. I know this is just because he is black!
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