Thursday

Cove Island Park in Stamford, CT

Received Thursday, February 21, 2008
Light skinned Hispanic nanny was seen walking around Cove Island Park on the trail pushing a little girl in a purple jacket, hood up and white scarf around the outside of the jacket about 1/2 hour ago. (2/21- 1:00 PM?) The stroller was a gray, black and blue stroller and the little girl was sitting on blankets and had a pink blanket over her legs. She was well bundled. I noticed the nanny looking towards the parking area, just assumed she was waiting for her ride. I went and sat in my car to eat lunch. A male pulls up and the nanny goes to him, greets him with a very long kiss. She takes the girl out of the stroller, puts the little girl in the backseat, leaves the stroller by the passenger door and gets in the car where she pro cedes to 'make out' with this man and 'talk' for about 15 minutes. In fairness, there seemed to be a lot of talking, but there were also many times their heads remained connected at the lip. More conversation. Then the guy gets out, goes over and opens the car door for the woman. *They get the baby out, put the baby back in the stroller, bundle her back up, one more kiss and the nanny and the male gets back in the car and drives off. The male was about 40 years old, white, with brownish, thick hair, pleasant looking, wearing a pair of dark suit pants, a white dress shirt and he had a brown leather looking dressy coat over the top of that. I know he had a tie on but I cant recall what color. He was driving a silver audi suv. The nanny had on black boots that were flat, no heel but had a fancy tie up going up the front of them. She wore her jeans tucked in to the boots and a cream colored coat. The nanny had shoulder length brown hair that was wavy and she looked to be about 30.

"to clarify, after putting the child back in the stroller and kissing goodbye, the male drove off and the nanny walked off with the child in the stroller. the baby was never left alone or outside of the vehicle" -Author

28 comments:

Anonymous said...

If I had a nanny, I wouldn't want my nanny doing things like this-meeting men in the park in the afternoon. Who knows if my child was being taken care of? How do we know this was the nanny's boyfriend and not the father of the child? *LOL*

Anonymous said...

I don't think this is good at all and I also think the parents would not like this one bit

Anonymous said...

I thought the same thing...that it could be the father of the child. It's not as uncommon as many think for nannies ot dally with the fathers!

Anonymous said...

then how come op didn't witness daddy kissing his child?
it's the nannies bf, and she should be fired. pronto.

Anonymous said...

3:21

Because if it's daddy, he's not nearly as interested in the baby as he is in the nanny.

Anonymous said...

Did it ever occur to anyone that maybe she wasn't a nanny, but the child's mother...and met the child's father, and, placed the child in a booster chair or something in the back seat. Maybe everything isn't as scandalous as it seems.

I'm just saying...

Anonymous said...

I was thinking the same 5:24.
Sometimes, I met up with my husband too. At times we are busy and its nice to see each other when we have a free moment. Theres no mention of abuse going on with the child.

It really sounds like its the parents of the child. Assuming you were on your lunch break, could be the same with this father

Anonymous said...

opps I meant meet

Anonymous said...

If it was Hubby/Daddy, he should've had a kiss for his baby!

Anonymous said...

I read this post "4" times....OP, did you really see the male AND nanny get back into the car after having taken the child out of the car and put her back into the stroller...? Sounds like the poor child was left alone in the parking lot, and the smootchy-hootchy- cootchy lovers took off together without her. Please tell I'm I'm wrong, or tell me you called the police immediately, having been witness to this crime.

Anonymous said...

yeah I think that was a mistake what she wrote.

Anonymous said...

I'm thinking that the OP just didn't proofread or would have caught the mistake.

Anonymous said...

I think the OP meant "just one more kiss with the nanny and the male drove a way." Logically, I highly doubt that the OP's entire focus of her post would have been on kissing, rather than child abandonment, if both adults had driven off without the baby... it looks like a simple typo to me.

I too, have to wonder if this is a daddy and mommy duo. My husband meets me about once a week, or at least every other week for lunch, on his lunch break, and it has happened in the past that he met me and our daughter at the park... and get this, we did kiss-I know so scandalous of us! ha ha

I'm not sure if that's the case here, but I'm not ready to jump on this story without being positive this isn't mommy and daddy sneaking a moment.

Anonymous said...

I believe that this kind of behavior is why there is such a market for wireless video monitors and other electronic baby gear like the teddy bear video camera, etc. But, what does a mom do when nanny and baby are out of range? Hire a detective?

Anonymous said...

I don't see the huge issue with this. How does anyone know it wasn't the nanny's husband?

Anonymous said...

"They get the baby out, put the baby back in the stroller, bundle her back up, one more kiss and the nanny and the male gets back in the car and drives off."

Yeah. I noticed that, too. I figured it had to have been some kind of massive typo!
Leaving poor baby alone in the parking lot, that's major abuse!
Crazy how it does change the whole dramatics of the story around, though!

Anonymous said...

Yes that was a typo. I baked up and erased something and rewrote it wrong.

They get the baby out, put the baby back in the stroller, bundle her back up, one more kiss and the nanny and child stroll off one way and the male gets back in the car and drives off."

That is how it should have read.

Anonymous said...

i don't understand how things like this even qualify as nanny sighting. omg, the nanny kissed someone (probably her husband)!

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Anonymous said...

The reason I don't think it was her husband or okay with the employer is that it was a cold winter day, that parking lot is usually empty and only suspicious people lurk there. I think selling pot and what have you.

Anonymous said...

Ok, not to sound cynical or anything, but although I meet my husband with some frequency for a lunch date during the week...and I may even give him a kiss or two...we don't ever "make out" in the car afterward. (
Seems pretty universal that people who are married (at least for more than a few months) can ususally wait until they get home to snog uncontrollably. I'm just sayin....it's usually a new relationship or an affair when you see this kind of thing. Not always...but it's probably a pretty safe bet that these were not the TWO parents of the child...although it may have been the father and nanny. That thought crossed my mind too.

Laura Castle said...

I dont seem to see a problem with this either. The nanny had the child bundled...placed them in the car...so it wasnt just in the parking lot...rebundled it 15 mins later...and they were off. Its not like it happed for 3 hours. And even the OP said more talking then kissing. Nannies do not get breaks you break and lunch with the child, so why is it so wrong to take 15 mins for your self, out of the day for her. It was most likly a BF or husband...and who knows maybe he was just droping of lunch money or something.

Anonymous said...

What if this was a dh who met up with his dw before heading to the airport to go out of town for a business trip? In that scenario, it doesn't sound like such a big deal KWIM?

Anonymous said...

Sounds like the Author was jealous. God how annoying! Staring at them the whole time. Get your own life.

Anonymous said...

Ok we can all sit her a speculate as to what the circumstances were. Out of all of the circumstances, only one situation is ok, that being that the woman was the child's Mother. If she was not then there is no circumstances that make this ok.

Hey I am all for nanny taking a break, but I don't care where I have ever worked, I have never gone to my car and made out with anyone. Especially in front of someone else's kid. It is not even ok to put someone else's child into someone else's car or be making out even if for for a few minutes.

I don't want my child watching his Nanny (if he had one) or my husband and I making out. I am going to go out on a limb here and say that this nanny was not the Mother and she did not have permission to stick the kid in the back seat while she made out with someone in the front seat. It is common sense people.

~Lindsey, SAHM in California~

Anonymous said...

Sounds like the father of the baby on HIS lunch break meeting up with nanny to get some lovin and slip her an extra 50 bucks, because his stingy prude of a wife doesn't perform her wifely duties and doesn't like paying nanny a decent wage.
Yea I think that's exactly it. Besides to the folks that say that it doesn't seem like his baby, op words it "they" put the baby back in the stroller. Some random guy or even her boyfriend probably wouldn't help her put the baby in the stroller and bundle her up. Sounds like dad to me!

Anonymous said...

lol, this is all too fuanny, why cant the nanny get some love! its cold out there!

Anonymous said...

i mean funny!

Anonymous said...

If you thought something was wrong you should have opened your big mouth and say something to the nanny. However, it appears as though you prefer to make insinuations and accusations.