Major prob. Looking for a way out. I had agreed to watch my boss's sister's kid when the two of them go to Italy for ten days. This is at my boss's house in addition to the two kids I watch. The problem is I spent eight hours with her on Saturday and she is terrible. She is four and not potty trained. She smeared her BM all over the place during her nap. She still uses a pacifier. I spent the day WITH the mom and her to acclimate and it was terror. She also parents in a way that is different from the sister. so that alone, how would I do it? The kids I nanny for are 3 & 7. I'm afraid the bad kid is going to corrupt the good kids. The three year old is parented with natural consequences only. That's what the mom said, but when I suggested then that she help me clean up the poop from the wall, the mom said, "no that's punitive". She refuses to eat real meals, so all day long she gets plied with special treats like frozen bananas, gogurt, peanut butter and fluff sandwiches. The trip is on the 15th. I don't know how to get out of this. Do I involve the sister? I only saw her husband yesterday so we didn't get time to talk about my weekend with the sister. Adding insult to injury is she paid me $40 for the day, $40 for 8 hours on a Saturday and she did it like it was some sort of bonus. HELP ME!