I have two nannies, both are college students. My Tues/Friday nanny works two very long 14 hour days. It was hard finding someone to work those days. She has only been with us 4 weeks (8 14 hour days) as of today. This morning when she came in, my husband and I were in the kitchen. She said, "There is something I have to tell you, and I anticipate you are going to be upset, but I want to be honest with you". We were immediately alarmed and frozen. Turns out her confession is that she lost the SIM card to her phone here, after making some X rated videos for her boyfriend. (Her words). She asked that if we find it, could we please not look at it and turn it right over to her. She said she felt she had to tell us, incase we found it and looked at it and the kids saw the video. This mornings I assured her that of course we would. She further elaborated that she made the video in our family room after youngest fell asleep having came home from the park. Older child was at school. The more I think about it, the more it kind of creeps me out. I honestly don't know if I can just give her the card if we find it without looking at it. In fact, a part of me is hoping that I do find it. And even if we don't, this confession of hers really has me rattled. My husband says while it isn't appropriate, she is here for 14 hours and we expect that she will have down time. How do I get past this? The best case scenario is she finds the card, we never have access to it, so I never have a visual and I can somehow stop thinking about nanny buck naked on our leather sofa. I don't know that she was. My mind just wanders. I made the mistake of telling my mother who lives 15 minutes away. She says I have to terminate her now and suggests the children are in peril. I alternate from being creeped out to dreading the process of finding a replacement. Help!