I suspected and confirmed about a month ago that my boss tips about 10 percent. There are five of us and the kids always leave a mess under the table, not intentionally. They are just young. I find myself so nervous during the meal. I start clearing and stacking the dishes because I think I am afraid to be not liked. The situation made me so uncomfortable that last night, I threw a five on the table as we were leaving. This only made me feel worse, like I was undermining my boss.
Is there a graceful way to handle this?