Any other mothers ever feel like having a great nanny makes you the object of scorn and backtalk? Huge house, gorgeous husband, five figure job, is it me..or is nothing worse in the eyes of another mother, working or stay at home, as a mother with a great nanny? My nanny and I have a mutually respectful relationship. When she is with my children, my children are just as well taken care of as when they are in my care. Instead of this making me the target of your wraths, why not celebrate that when it works, it really works. I understand envy, but I don't understand the level of envy and anger directed at me because of my set-up. I think what I feel is equally felt by my nanny who doesn't seem to have connected with any moms or nannies, despite being absolutely wonderful.