Received Wednesday, July 2, 2008 - Perspective & Opinion
Live in nanny question. I am a live in nanny who ocassionally spends the night with my boyfriend at his apartment. The family has no problem with this as I have always been home on time in the morning. This morning I came home and entered my room and my bosses were in there. They left my mail on my dresser. I feel completely violated. Normally they leave my mail on the computer desk outside of my room. This time they entered my room. I am a private person and when I took the position as a live-in I explained that if I did live in I needed complete privacy. No-I am not hiding anything , I just feel that they invaded my space. I understand it is their apartment but I still feel it was disrespectful. What are your takes on this?? My boyfriend says I am overreacting and to not make an issue out of it but I am still pretty upset.
Should I say something to them??