Received Tuesday, October 16, 2007
This morning (10/16) at about 9:15 AM,;Your young, Polish nanny; 19-22 wearing a short brown skirt, blue sweatshirt, bare legs and dark brown Uggz was pushing your child in a Maclaren Volo (looked like) in black and steel.
The child was wearing a blue jacket and had a blanket over his/her legs. Nanny's very short skirt flew up revealing the entirety of her bare buttocks, I kid you not. My sister and I walked briskly to see her face/what kind of person might so willingly put herself on her display and she was one of those over made up young nannies looking for a husband on your time.
I would be concerned about her dressed like that taking my child out, even if the short skirt had not revealed her buttocks-because she was the only one with bare legs this morning. Fall is here, let's put some clothes on.
59 comments:
Your green monster is showing, you fat SAHM!
So the site is now so desperate for sightings that even obviously trolling ones are worthy of being posted?
*rolls eyes*
Credit? Where else should she be heading? She's a nanny. She is getting, paid; right?
You all must not live in the Chicago area. The Polish au pairs are legendary for their "sexy dress" and high heels. Although they seem to tear the pages out of a 1987 Vogue. But you get what you pay for with an aupair. If you are doling out $120 a week, I don't think you get to say bubcus about what the nanny wears.
What does what the nanny was wearing have to do with her job? What does it matter what she wears as long as she is taking care of the child. give me a break here-this shouldn't ever had made the blog.
Nope, I am not in Chicago- Though when I think it through a little further, I am not sure if I would ever hire a nanny who dressed that way. I would assume, however, that the parents do realize what she is wearing because one of them must see her in the morning. They already made the decision to hire her, it must be okay with them.
Don't minimize a seductive nanny.
Take a peek at Jane's other page.
If you're horny and looking for a date it really ought to be on your time and if you're hiring a flasher you ought to be ashamed.
Your daughter will want to dress like her caregiver.
I suggest you make her a role model worth emulating.
This isn't a complaint worthy item.
However, to "Another Hot Nanny" above.
I'm a SAHM with a pretty great body, but I would not think of showing my bare ass in the street. That's not "Hot," that's skanky and pathetic. And if she think's she's going to catch a man doing that...she probably will...but she'll probably catch one with a disease...or give him one anyway.
Jealous? Not much. Disgusted? You bet. And your ignorant comment puts you right into her league. Congratulations.
I don't think OP was jealous. If my nanny was walking around with my kids, and displaying her ass to all hetereosexual males out there, I'd want to know. She is a nanny, not an adult film star. She has the right to dress as she wants, but also has to know that being a nanny comes with certain moral obligations.
Not OP and I don't live in Chicago. I live in Philadelphia. We had a nanny from Iowa who would get dressed twice. Once in the morning to start at 7:30 and a second time after we had left and to take our then 2 year old son out to play. The problem was she was receiving a lot of attention from a gaggle of men with unpure intentions, and if you don't think that affected her ability to nanny or endangered our son- you'd be wrong. There are plenty of modest nannies out there. Plenty.
Actually, you ladies have made me look at it a little closer. I take back giving her credit and think she should put on some pants. What is it, like 40degrees in Chicago?
are you serious?
this is the most ridiculous post Ive seen yet.
her skirt flew up!! fire her immediately.
gimme a break
I live somewhat close to Chicago...it is COLD and WINDY! This nanny needs to dress appropriately. Personally I would not want my nanny wearing anything that I would not allow my child wear...it is an appropriate reflection. I certainly would not tell my nanny how to dress (as long as she was not dressed blatantly inappropriate and I am not so sure about this outfit), but even if she wanted to be sexy, she could do it without showing all her business to the fine people of Chicago.
who is to say that what this nanny was really inappropriate? theres not picture, so we dont even know how short the skirt was.
Ive had the wind unexpectedly blow my skirt, up, it happens.
What the hell does it have to do with anything?
If shes dressed like a hooker everyday of the week, okay, she needs to think again.
Also the post said she's about 19, how many 19 yr old girls do you see where tiny little skirts? even the good girls
The world is crawling with perverts. Your nanny need not be a beacon light to attract them- not on work hours. I don't want strange men yelling things out, chatting up with my nanny, following her home or paying her any more attention than any other nanny is being paid. Granted, I am only a C list celebrity, but that sort of outfit would never fly with me. And I knew a nanny about three years back who would dress just like that- in her employers evening clothes- when her employer was out of town. And she would walk around picturesque spots in NYC.
1:17...I agree with you for the most part, but if you feel the need to point out you are a C list celebrity, then you are probably really a D list celebrity, if one at all.
yes of course meme because posting as anonymous is going to bring him/her....
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And you don't have to be a celebrity to not want attention drawn to your nanny and child. I have a daughter who is breathtakingly beautiful at 14 months-she stops traffic. Everyone comments on her. I am trying to get her accustom to wearing hats and visers so that she attracts less attention and I wouldn't want a nanny bringing more attention to her or her stroller.
12:23,
Of course you think you have a pretty great body. But that's your opinion. I personally think the OP was jealous, too. Some people would think it was hot if a woman's skirt blew up so they could see her ass. How is it skanky and pathetic if the wind blows your skirt up? The college my husband and I live near is filled with nice, respectable girls who wear very short skirts because it is the style. Sometimes in the windy city weather they blow around.
Get with the times! And loosen up. Unless you are lying and really don't have a hot body. And if you do and are a prude, it's just going to waste!
I think it is okay she was wearing a short skirt, but really she should have been wearing some underware. it also brings up the concern about how much could she be playing with the child with a short skirt and little or no underwear? To the people who think the mom was jealous, how do you know? If I saw a skirt blow up like that I wouldn't be jealous, I would be grossed out. who wants to see her butt? I don't think this is worth firing anyone but they should definitely be dressing more appropriately.
Look, someone's got to bang your husband. If not you, why not your Polish au pair Petruskhza?
It's too cold for that foolishness, and what made you believe she was Polish?
Maybe, she didn't feel the cold.
Are you sure she had nothing on underneath. It could have been one of those thongs that V.S. makes. Like the bras with the straps that are clear. So you don't really see the straps
Siara,
I suppose I got the idea that my body was pretty good because a lot of people compliment me on it. I'm just in good shape, that's all. Not that I care whether you think I'm hot or not. I was just making a point to whoever it was that thought those of us who don't like seeing a bare butt in public (woman or man's butt) are somehow offended because we must be fat or ugly and worried that nobody would want to see our bare butts.
I'm 5'10" tall, blonde and could turn heads in a bikini...and I still have no desire whatsoever to see your nanny's ass. Do you feel better now? It's just such a gutter snipe thing to do. And you're going to find that that opinion is pretty universal...among those with any class at all.
Some of us really do just care about kids and are not motivated by jealousy to make the comments we do.
It's amazing how many airheads are willing to defend a scantily dressed airhead. Chicago is a windy city, period. If foreign nanny was wearing a teeny easy-blow skirt, she is looking for a horny American guy to give her a green card. She should be doing that in her own spare time though, not on the job.
probably a ugly pig of a mother who doesnt have the ability to lose her baby fat. Grow up and let people dress the way they like. No need to be a fashion nazi
People who dress like hookers should never be nannies. Sends a bad message to the children.
4:59 you're pretty hostile. What has made you so bitter? Care to share.
It's not a matter of telling somebody how to dress at all. It's a matter of not wanting to see her naked butt in public. And probably not wanting her poor charge to have to stare at her bare hooch all day long. It's matter of common decency, which seems to utterly escape you. Please tell us all you're not a nanny...or a mom...or a woman, for that matter!
well said 5:19 pm. Decency escapes many on this thread.
Hey SAHM with the great body . . . how insecure must you be to post about your own attractiveness. Yes, I'm sure it was just VITAL to your point. And frankly, you're all probably a bunch of lonely losers to spend your time sniping on this blog. GET A LIFE!!!!!! I plan to.
Um...you're on this blog too...and you think it's for losers. What does that say about you?
I happen to enjoy the blog. I tend to shy away from places I think are for losers. You might try it sometime.
And, if you read, the mention of the good body was in response to the accusation that those who object to seeing a naked ass in public must be fat, ugly, dumpy and, therefore, jealous. (As if good looking people naturally would enjoy seeing a good piece of ass trolling down the boulevard!) Are you just sad to know that it isn't true? Does it leave you without any other argument to throw at those who might simply HAVE A LITTLE CLASS?
Grow up. And, because I fear you might not have the sense to think of this on your own: PLEASE be sure to wear panties under your short skirts. Nobody decent wants to see your hooch either.
To the 5'10 hot blond, yadda yadda turning heads in a bikini mom etc:
you are obviously not concerned with "just the kids" you obviously have an ego problem. Truly beautiful women don't think they are beautiful. It's called modesty. You sound like the one without any class!
Hey Hot SAHM,
I'm not sure that using the words "hooch" and "ass" in public posts is really indicative of class. But let's assume, for the sake of argument, that you do have class. That's great. Now if only you had some brains, or even a slight sense of humor, you probably wouldn't be getting so worked up over this kind of stuff. I doubt that the nanny who called you fat really meant it! Probably she's at home, drinking some wine and having a good laugh at your expense. As am I.
Sounds like those who called SAHMs jealous are actually the jealous ones. (But the rest of us knew this all along.)
Call the kettle black much? Ms. Pot?
7:23/7:27
jealous much?
OP, how do you know she is Polish, or an au pair? She could be a local college student babysitter, or even the child's mom.
19-22 year olds frequently wear short skirts and thongs. Chicago is the Windy City.
This post is ridiculous.
Chicago is known for it's ho-ish dressing au pairs of a certain persuasian. I shant say more in fear of offending anyone. I shant.
It's inappropriate whether she was a nanny or an au pair. It is cold and windy. Short skirts are one thing, but when you are taking care of a child, that is another. How does she bend over and get the child out of the stroller? I also agree that I would not want any additional attention drawn to my child, especially sexual attention from deviants.
Well said Kim. Unforunatey the hoochies on this thread would rather divert attention from the real issue here: child's safety. Once in a while a professional idiot shows up and defends stupid behavior, and will defend for as long as the thread exists. There are those likeyou Kim, who have decency, and there are hoochies.
A nanny's attire is her own right. If the parents have a problem with it, they are the ones responsibile to communicate that to her. Since the nanny probably picks or drops the kid off at their home, then that means the caregivers are aware of her clothing. And, if they have no problem with it, neither should you. Mind your own business. Its disgusting that people would post something like this as a problem. It discredits anything credible about this site.
how do you know that she was polish????
If you think your nanny dresses inappropriately, mention it. When I was young and a size 6 living in Manhattan for the first time I used to wear what I thought was cute short skirts and high heeled leather boots to the office, the biggest favor anyone ever did for me was a woman I respected pointing out that you should dress for success regardless of where you are. She might be young, not sure or who she is or where she's going and could use the advice. Not a bad nanny siting at all. She had her charge properly dressed.
She is Polish, I know her. She dresses like that all the time, regardless of weather. She changes from heels to Uggs when it gets cold. Sorry to everyone, but there could be 6 inches of snow on the ground and she will still be wearing what she was today.
When I saw this I said "Oh, my gosh, its %&$#!!!" The majority young Polish women dress that way, and there are a lot of them here!
I'm a huge advocate of the attitude "if you aren't their parent, your opinion really doesn't matter". However, I agree she could be changing, or they may not realize she is nude under there, and any sliding, bending, swining, rolling, or playing would expose her bush and butt.
To poster 12:11 "unreal", it is a job. I would not show up working in an office dressed like a skank, so when I bend to file I show off all my assets. The same goes for any job, you dress appropriatley for that position. Would a stripper get away with wearing several layers, a winter jacket and then just dancing... probably not. Same as a nanny/ babysitter/caretaker shouldn't... unless parents are ok with it, dress in short skirts with no undies!
I am a Spa Coordinator, and I go out of my way to dress differently and much nicer, than I would when I am at the park rolling in the grass with my son.
We dress a certain way when we work, because that is our JOB!
A true Chicagoian here... it was nice yesterday trust me.... I wish I didnt spend all night/all day in the studio for my arch. project... so
windy? not really...
although why does anyone care what others wear... be more worried about yourself. How often do I come accross mothers who gave themselves away.... Yikes!
ps. my bestfriend is polish and she doesnt dress that way... generalizing much are we?
CEO...did you really use the word "Bush?" Your post makes sense, but use of that word is just so crass it almost ruined the intellegent nature of the rest of your post. Are you a man?
I think that sums it up. You need to be able to properly fulfill the functions of your job without complications, and in such a case as this, creepy attention from sleazebags is a complication and a distraction from performing the tasks at hand.
I've seen a nanny, or possible babysitter in my area who falls into the category. She is young, GORGEOUS, long blonde hair, takes care of a school age boy (around 6 or 7) and seems like a park playmate for him. Maybe even a much oldre sister? But she wears VERY short skirts with bare legs and Uggs, and is apparently undistracted by the fact that the whole crotch (white) of her underwear is fully visible from across the lawn when she sits cross legged. I did glance because I thought maybe she'd wear shorts under the skirt, as most people might in that situation, but no. I also saw her doing some stretches and she stood on the lawn and bent over to touch her toes and stretch her back. I only saw from the front but I'd bet there was a whole butt-view to be seen from behind.
This is a large park that is fairly regularly frequented by a homeless person or 2 (not overrun like some parks around here) but there is one literally raving lunatic crazy man who lives on the basketball court and wanders the park area who I always stay on the lookout for and I'd be REALLY creeped out at the thought of him checking out my barely-covered-by-panties ass, ESPECIALLY when I'm with my little boy. I once saw her climbing a tree to try and retrieve a ball stuck there, swinging around upside down on the branches. Things that make you go hmmmm.
So while I don't want to sound like the Harper Valley PTA, I do think it shows a lack of responsibility to dress that way while nannying. Just as it shows a lack of responsibility to show up for your job as a bank teller wearing short jogging shorts and a bra top with flip flops, and expect to be taken seriously and recognized for your professionalism and efficiency. Many jobs have dress codes so I don't see why nannying should be any different. It's not "jealousy", or a case of anyone's "freedoms" being denied, it's common sense. Don't like the rules of the workplace? Don't take the job.
Cali:
Do you think you can add anymore of your thoughts?
Cali mom...a Harper Valley PTA reference? You must be older than I thought.
You have to remember that Europe has different standards of what is acceptable. And Poland is a helluva lot colder than Chicago. Trust me on this.
This is would be funny, if it werent so sad.
Are you worried about the children...or your boyfriend or husband??
So they don't wear underwear in Poland? Or have manners?
I have a lovely friend who moved here from Poland 8 years ago. (born and raised there.) She wears undergarments, from what I can tell, and I have never seen her butt or boobs. She looks normal and sweet. Although I have no idea what the "style" is in Poland, she has managed to figure out how we dress here and fit in nicely. It can be done.
If my husband were willing to screw some tramp, I'd rather he get to it sooner rather than later so I could find out and seek a man with morals and charachter.
My husband is a decent guy, so, no, I'm not worried about her bare butt turning him into some sort of crazed immoral beast, if that's what you're asking.
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Oh okay...please! Does it really matter what country she was from or what city this happened in?
My nanny (if I had one) could be a little green person from the moon and I could live on Island with only three other people and I still would not think it was appropriate for her to wear clothing was going to show her naked hoo-haa in front of my child (and the three other people, LOL).
Her nation of origin is NOT the issue here. Her taste and class (and possibly that of her employer) is.
Exactly, meme
I agree with you.
I don't wanna see that. Yuk.
People who don't like to wear underwear should make sure their outerwear covers what needs to be covered.
Jane Doe,
You removed my post about pedophiles. I can understand why if you took it literally, but it was mean to be sarcastic in response to the post above (also removed) where somebody said that little girls should look sexy.
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