I have a tough problem. I have been with this family for four years. The employers and I are not close but have a very good pleasant relationship. I am very close to the two children and love them. I know they are very satisfied with me and have done many things to make sure I am happy here, but the truth is, I don't want to work as a nanny anymore. I want to go to work in my field and start accruing a 501K and I want to have coworkers and go to happy hour. As much as I know this, I know that telling the parents this is going to be very hard on the whole family. I am asking you parents and nannies what can I do to make this easier on them? What kind of notice should I give? Some have suggested I help them find a new nanny but if that does not work, I would feel responsible and more guilty? Speaking of guilt, how do you get past the guilt? It is very important to me to end things on a good note as I don't want to be completely out of the children's lives. Help.