I was recently offered a new position. The family gave me the option of whether I preferred them to pay me gross and I will pay my taxes at the end of the year, or they will withold the taxes themselves and will write me a check for that amount to pay my taxes with. They won't have me sign any tax forms, and this has left me baffled. Are they trying to get out of paying taxes? I don't want to be screwed come tax time. Thank you for any insight.