Received Tuesday, June 12, 2007
This is not a sighting but I am looking for advice. I recently broke off my friendship with these people. This family has an AA nanny and she is one of the nicest people you would ever meet. The problem that I have is that her employer calls her the n-word behind her back ANY chance she gets. She smiles in her face and when she talks to me she uses that word. On many occassions I have told her I have felt uncomfortable with it but she still does it. Its used casually which is scary. I will give you an example of the conversation.
Me: Hi S**** hows it going
S: good, our n***** nanny is getting on my nerves
Me: How so?
S: Well she forgot to put the milk away this morning and when I came home for lunch it was sitting out.
Me: Well, did you talk to her about it?
S: you know how those stupid n*****'s are they don't get it
Me: Why do you call her that if you don't like her, get rid of her
S: Are you kidding my kid loves her, who doesn't have a n**** nanny now adays
Me: I can't stand that word, I think its rude
S: Oh come on, please what should I call her, "our coco crispy nanny"
Me: No call her by her name
S: No I like my name better
Me: I gotta go, yoga
This happened last month and I have been avoiding her. I talk to her nanny alot and I always want to tell her. Its just that these people seem crazy. I don't want the poor nanny to turn up missing or something. When I say this nanny is nice, she is soooo nice. If I had kids I would hire her. I can't sleep!