14 May, 2007

Rochester, New York

Received Monday, May 14, 2007
Description: The nanny's name is Megan. She is blonde, approximately 23 years old, also works at a golf course.
Behavior: I am friends with a man who is married but is having an affair with Megan. They meet during the days at the home of the people whose child Megan is supposed to be nannying for unbeknown to Megan's employers. Aside from carrying on their affair, they also use cocaine together. If I knew the name of the family for whom Megan works I would call them myself. She is behaving negligently and I am afraid harm with come to the child/children in her charge. If anyone knows the family for whom she works, please inform them right away. She works in the Rochester, NY area.

35 comments:

Anonymous said...

Your friend is just as wrong to use drugs and show up at a nanny's job and have relations with her at her work!

Anonymous said...

Is this man your husband???

Anonymous said...

very easy..works at golfcourse...next time she works on golfcourse and is on cocaine...call the cops...easy
CHILD IS IN DANGER....do something

ro said...

do you know how many guys are on westchester golf courses as we speak "on cocaine" ?

HuntersMom said...

Since you say you are a friend of this "gentleman", (I use the term loosely), and are not afraid to report this Nanny ... why not try to pry more info. out of him (he's told you so much already), such as: "What neighborhood is this in?" ... but do it very casually. Then after you get more info. you might be able to figure out where to go, or repost here and someone might recognize the Nanny. This could be a very dangerous situation, with drugs involved - who knows what that little girl is being exposed to.

Miss Ashley said...

Just call Child Services (or whatever it's called in your area) and inform them that a caregiver for children in using drugs on the job. They should step in. OR you could inform management at the golf club that one of their employees is under the influence...or call the cops...This is a dangerous situation!!! Something must be done!

Anonymous said...

Mind your business. You can't be all that great if your hanging around a guy that snorts cocaine or whatever the hell they do with it. How are your morals? Secondly if you were really THAT concerned you would have told her other job about her habit. Secondly if her employer couldn't see that her nanny was showing up to work high then the parents need help. But something tells me your lying. Most people on this blog do. Good luck!

Anonymous said...

by putting this online so what, if this is your husband why dont you describe him. even put his name and stop blamng the other woman. since you know exactly what they are doing and where, why not go to the employers house and tell them directly. what is the chance of them seeing this online

so wrong the rose said...

so if this woman is the wife of the husband and she found out he was cheating-let's imagine how that goes. She find out where he met her. Somehow she finds out her met her at a golf course. Okay, next question, where is it they are carrying on their relationship? That is how it could come up that the person is a nanny.
I don't think that is all specific enough information to call any police anywhere. And I wouldn't want a nanny that used cocaine even on the weekends, but I most definitely wouldn't want a nanny that brought a stranger in to my home for the purposes of having sex!
Wrong, wrong and W R O N G

Anonymous said...

miss ashley,
aren't you a bit much?
calling yourself miss ashley?

Anonymous said...

This man is NOT my husband, he is a friend who will NOT give me anymore information, probably because he knows I would do what many of you suggested, i.e report the nanny to Child Protective Services, etc... I don't know what golf course she works at, and I don't even know her last name. You know as much as I know about the situation.

Anonymous said...

This sounds like one of those cases where some crazy person is trying to ruin a nanny. We've all seen it on here when a nanny quits and the pyscho mom spreads vicious lies.

Anonymous said...

You are obviously this guy's wife...

Anonymous said...

Who cares if she's the guy's wife? If what she's saying is true, Miss Megan needs to fry. It's easy enough to prove. If she has nothing to hide, then surely she won't mind submitting to a drug test adminsitered by her employer. Cocaine is not a good choice of drugs.

c said...

cocaine just debilitates me.
When I come down, I just want to hit anything near me. Walls, people, other cars in my path.

Sucks to be me.

Anonymous said...

OP: Why do you care what this whore does? Are you pissed that your guy friend is banging Megan and not you? I smell jealousy and it don't smell too good. Maybe she got the nanny job you wanted. Look this isn't MYSPACE. If you want to rant and rave about this girl, go and create a page like my neighbor's daughter did and trash her. Thats what all 16 year old girls do. If your not 16 you sure sound like it. If you don't know her then stay out of it. Nothing this guy says can be trusted because according to you their addicts. Look Becky, relax. Go shopping. I heard the Gap is having a sale! Good luck.

Anonymous said...

if the story is true, i dont care where it comes from. even if it is a sworn enemy! And who knows your secrets better than someone who you betrayed? i get all my best gossip from someone else's "frenemies"

Kate said...

What is with some of you? This is a nanny, having sex in her employer's home, and probably doing drugs while on the job. Can we please focus on the child here? These are not acceptable behaviors for ANY employee on duty, especially a nanny who is supposed to be nurturing and protecting a child. Stop attacking the OP. Regardless of her choice of friends, she is trying to help this child. If you don't have anything constructive to say, then let it go and move on!

Anonymous said...

It is amazing how many people want to attack the messenger. If the person who reported this really wanted to ruin the nanny's life, why wouldn't she have 1) printed her full name; 2) called the cops; 3) gone directly to the parents; or 4) a whole host of other direct means of ruining the nanny's life other than posting an anonymous and rather vague comment on an obscure blog. Let's presume the reporter is being honest and is concerned about the children -- hopefully someone who knows the family will read the posting and talk to the parents so that appropriate measures can be pursued, i.e. a drug test. Really, who cares about the cheating man -- he has his own mess to deal with. Let's be concerned for the poor child who being babysat by a neglectful addict nanny.

Anonymous said...

I think you have grudge against megan, and you want the man for yourself, so you are trying to make her lose possibly both of her jobs, Get a life OP

Anonymous said...

OP you must be fat because you are full of BS. Apparently "Megan" is doing something right because she is still employed. Either "Megan's" nose candy isn't strong enough or the parents are too stupid to notice. I doubt its either. I also doubt that her and her boy toy are screwing eachother in front of the kids. You want to know something? I doubt your whole story. Get a life.

status status status said...

10:02-
spoken ever so familiarly,
redundant. really.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=ZtNekCwRo7s

Anonymous said...

Do you know if they are using safe sex practices? The wife could be in danger here as well from this nanny skank. I hope the people who need to know find out what is going on.

jo said...

10:02-

How odd that you should suggest that every nanny that is still employed is doing something right. Isn't that the problem? So much PC bullshit no one says what they mean or tells the truth anymore. Be ware of smiling faces!

I have a lot of respect for people who tell me straight out how it really is. The people who surround me are honest and it is for that reason that I have such success.

Your comments indicate that the sneakier a nanny is, the better for her. Three cheers for nannies who pull the wool over their employees eyes. I notice you have zero regard for even the possibility that this child could be harmed by narco nanny or the skevatzy man she is bringing in the house?

That isn't normal.
This blog is about children.

Anonymous said...

I am relatively new to this site, and can appreciate it's worth. I commend all of you for caring so much for these children that are not in your charge. What bothers me however, is when I started reading up on all of the past blogs, until present ... I've noticed that there are alot more attacks on the OP now. Everything from: bad spelling, this story is BS (fake), even some racism. I think we need remember that this is an important site, use our common sense, and stop attacking posters or they will not want to come back. And who suffers in the end? The poor kids, because they will no longer have an advocate for them. To posters 7:20 and 7:56, you said it so eloquently.

sw said...

10:02 sounds like a guilty golfer who is aokay with drug abuse. sketchy.

Anonymous said...

golf seems to corrupt men

fg said...

yeah, tell me about it. It's ruined many marriages.

Anonymous said...

5:31..should we break out in song and hold hands now?

Anonymous said...

Good grief, people, let's focus here. To the OP: don't listen to those here blasting you. It seems like it is one person, a nanny who blasts every poster on here because she is afraid of being exposed herself. Good for you for posting and I hope that someone sees this and reports it to the child's mother. Why don't more people install nanny cams?!

deb said...

Has a nanny cam ever caught a professional nanny doing something wrong? I know au pairs have been caught. And sitters. And housekeepers assigned to watch the children, but has there ever been an incident of a tried and true nanny being caught on a nanny camera? perhaps the cameras should not be called nanny cameras. They need to be called SUBPAR CHILDCARE CAMERAS. and if you have one, you might want to dial the focus especially high and increase the resolution so that you can clearly illuminate the SUBPAR CHILDCARE worker.

Hire real Nannies.
Eat American Beef.
Rebuild New Orleans.

fg said...

and should we call the cameras SCC's or have those initials already been taken by the two mom posting team?

Anonymous said...

12:24 .... only if you promise to take the lead.

velvet said...

I know Megan personally and have for three years. You are all wrong. she would never do the things you accused her of. Lay off her and you should all get a life. She is extremely pretty and woman always get jealous of her because of their own insecurities. end this bullshit rumor mill.

Anonymous said...

Megan, is that you?