Thursday

Bernice Bennett Park in Westlake Village, California

Received Thursday, February 8, 2007
You can post this as a blind item if you want. What Hollywood celebrity is traveling the globe chasing a man while leaving her two small children in the care of an often moody nanny who never smiles? Advice: If mommy isn't going to stick around to take care of her tots; she might want to hire someone with a heart. Your kids deserve better and you can afford it!

96 comments:

Jennie said...

Who are you talking about?! The post is pretty vague... Britney Spears first popped into my head. ???

Anonymous said...

I give up, who?

kim said...

nice neighborhood.
um, is she the same woman who stole her best friend's husband?

Anonymous said...

Was she snapped snorting coke on the beach with "this man"????

Anonymous said...

Oh my god - we're all just dying here. WHO ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT?!?!?

Anonymous said...

if it's who I think it is, this "actress" spends time with his preteen daughter but he pays her children NO attention at all. She is clearly the one chasing him. All over. Following him on tour. Pathetic. Those children need a mother!

ray said...

just like britnney spears looked like an open & shut custody case, Britt's behavior now leaves open a big window for Fed to climb in and scoop up custody of the children (and money to keep the children in the same lifestyle he and they are accustom to).

The question is, how is Charlie Sheen doing now?

Anonymous said...

This could apply to several people, not just the one chasing a man.

Anonymous said...

OMG..you bitches need to get lives!! How pathetic..why not take this to a gossip sight??Jeesh

Anonymous said...

"Omg" + "Jeesh" = pathetic

Also, I am sure this could apply to a number of people but if you are a hollywood star especially if you are going to go out carousing and chasing a man- hire f----n mary poppins and build a children's wing on to the house. With a playroom. And Nanny quarters.

MB said...

eyond ridiculous, is this a gossip page now?

Anonymous said...

gossip? anything can be labeled gossip. This sounds like a bad nanny sighting. Especially bad because this brief post describes a nanny who is more like the sole caregiver and worse yet- for a celebrity parent. Celebrities have access to the best of all handbags, private jets, personal assistants and clothing- it makes no sense why a celebrity would settle for anything less than GREAT care.
Even if out of guilt for not wanting to spend time with her own children.
People who hire nannies:
regardless of your celebrity status YOU HAVE A BASIC OBLIGATION TO YOUR CHILDREN!

miggs said...

if the mother is indeed a celebrity and her nanny is observed in the park with the children, and the mother is not around- what access does the OP have to the parent? There is nothing different about this & every other post except someone wrote it in a way to suggest who the parent was.
Why are you so bugging about that? When nannies are being outed for gorging on omelette sandwiches & stealing turkeys?

mb said...

big deal she doesnt smile, thats not abuse or even cruel. maybe she is overwhelmed with raising two small children

Anonymous said...

I know who she's referring to, and their "MOTHER" is not out globe chasing, she's working right now. And no, the nanny is not "moody", she's overworked. L & S are in very capable hands.

Anonymous said...

why would a nanny be overworked? if you aren't going to take care of your kids, get 2 nannies.

and ps- by working, do you mean laying on a beach with her doughy boyfriends and exposing her coochie lips?

that's the story i heard.

but as jobs go, hey that sounds like good work to me!

Anonymous said...

the mother is "working" right now?
working on what?

Last I saw, she was on a beach chair in the caribean flashing her coochie to photogs while her doughy physiqued hunk of HL's leftovers lay beside her.

Anonymous said...

I don't believe you.

Anonymous said...

dude, what don't you believe?
This shocks you?
You must be fragile.
Make that a capital F.

Anonymous said...

Who is her???

Anonymous said...

is this denise richards?
i hear she calls the papparazzi before she takes her kids out. Or she used to. Back when she actually did anything with them.

Anonymous said...

jealous, much?

Anonymous said...

who are you talking to?
what is someone supposedly jealous of?

I feel bad for her.
But worse for her kids.

She really started out being a great mom and loving motherhood.
now she is acting like she is 12.

Anonymous said...

and I still don't believe you

Anonymous said...

believe who?
about what?
address your comments to someone, dumbass.

you're the fragile chick, right?
must live somewhere in the midwest.
proximal to a field of wheat.

Brett said...

she isn't working. She is in Maui. Doting on her lover. Her children are home with the nanny. Again. Her girls should join a support group with Britney's kids. These women are absolute arguments against giving mothers sole custody.

Support Father's Rights!

Anonymous said...

moo

Anonymous said...

if mama is going to off behavin like a lovesick teenager, hire a second nanny. maybe a night nanny. not fair to the children to have the nanny totally in charge of their care. That isn't a one nanny job.

just imo.
but what do i know?
I dont know even know who you are talkin about.

Anonymous said...

so it's a dairy farm,
not a wheat field?

dumbass.

Anonymous said...

130, girl, you seem frazzled!! Who gives what farm girl says. Take a pill...chill...go gulp some Jack D. or something...

g said...

Neither of those fathers have rights worth being supported! seriously. Perhaps the stress of rasising their 2 young children by herself (for britney too) caused some sort of breakdown.

Lets not be so hard on these mothers. I work in the court system and there is rarely a case where both parents are awful. There really is usually a stronger parent, better suited for custody. But having that responsibility is often tough to weather. Especially if you are a wohm.

Anonymous said...

uh, dumbass, cows live on farms. farms grow wheat/hay/whatever...and don't you watch t.v.? cows, happy ones, live in CA. i was just trying to give you a clue. maybe you need some sleep

Anonymous said...

That's my neighborhood park and you spelled the name wrong. It's Berniece.

Anonymous said...

Thanks g, some others here are way to judgemental.

Anonymous said...

140, is that where D. Richard's lives? Do you think this post is about her?

Anonymous said...

cows, hay, what, what?
WTF?
I hate the GET A CLUE poster
is "give you a clue" poster the same ninny?

Anonymous said...

Sure, expose the kids to a sex addict and substance abuser. That's so much better. Not to mention, he would know if he were around, don't you think? He lives in the Valley.

BTW, you do know that she's working on Blonde and Blonder? That the last movie she did is now in post production? Yeah, you really know what you're talking about.

Anonymous said...

141. Seriously, you are getting baited. Maybe ninny is right. Go to bed, oh little one.

Anonymous said...

nope, not me, though i think you need a clue, honey

Anonymous said...

she's been in hawaii for 2 weeks. and since dad cant see the kids, that means they are left with a nanny. I hate to think she is as cold as suggested here.

Anonymous said...

Ok, it is way too late...the conversations here are waaaayyyy going crazy. Serious post followed by crazy posts...oy' give me some excedrin!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Anonymous said...

145, do you read US mag? That is one of my favs. I don't think that I read that, so it seems like you either know her, or are you a stalker?

Anonymous said...

In Hollywood people know things. People know things. Her husband has very limited contact with the children. If it is true she is away again, then it would make sense she left the children with the nanny.

Anonymous said...

Um, I don't think Dad would KNOW anything. It's not like a) he has easy access to the children or b)he is even on good terms with the children's caregiver or c) really has the children in his line of site.

Anonymous said...

152, I think it's kind of sad when their lives are an open book. I don't help by buying the mags, but how sad for the children. I hope this post is not telling the whole story. Children need to be in a nuturing enviroment. I don't doubt she loves her daughters, and really, who brings children out durring their 'courtship'? I'm sure she is not the only parent who has to leave her children behind sometimes.

Anonymous said...

i think this site is called i saw your nanny. so what are we talking about here? If nanny is paid to do a job, even if mom is away too much-the nanny should be a loving person who gives the child that much more- not that much less. right? We all have our demons.

Anonymous said...

How sad if dad is not in the picture.

Anonymous said...

courtship?
this has been going on awhile.
I don't think she is ever with those kids. They probably call the nanny "mommy".
I hope she was just having an off day when op saw her and is really a super person.

Anonymous said...

Nannies have off days too, for sure. But if the nanny in question is never smiling? Children reflect their enviroment. I can only hope in private the nanny is nicer.

Anonymous said...

Dad's should be in the picture.
Unless they use drugs, alchohol or have other addictions that could jeopardize the children's well being.

If both parents use drugs, that would suck.

jj said...

1:59
or unless they are just PLAIN CRAZY

Anonymous said...

maybe nanny hates the papparazzo in her face? And doesn't feel she can relax when faced with that? I don't think I would be my normal self.

Anonymous said...

Oh, I suppose they have been dating for a while. How time flys. Hopefully DR will realize her children need her, and give them some of her time. Poor kids. Having a nanny full time, without parents around, sounds so sad.

Anonymous said...

200 has a good point. I have never had a person chasing after me to get a picture. It must be bad enough for famous parents to avoid the pap., but for their nanny? What an awkward position to be put into!!

Anonymous said...

Argh!
I had a great nanny once upon a time. And a High Powered Job. Then my nanny handed the baby to me one night and the baby turned around and reached out for the nanny. She didn't want me. Now I have a part time sitter and am a stay at home Mother. Anyone who is capable of being a good mother Will do her best to be a good mother. The ramifications at failing at motherhood-well, there are just too many. We can talk all night about the significance of a father's role in a child's life. But truthfully, children are made or broken by the care they receive from their mothers. Do the best you can. Everyday. I read a great book once called...oh.... it escapes me now... but it was something like "It is never too late". All about owning up to any mistakes you have made this far and being the best parent you can be.

Anonymous said...

Not to go off topic, but talking about dad's...anyone have a take on Ann N. Smith? Who knows who that baby belongs to, and now with no mother? Again, sorry for going off topic....

Anonymous said...

what is worse?
having a fulltime nanny without the parents around. or having a fulltime nanny with the parents around?
If you were a child, wouldn't you rather that your parents not take care of you because they were working or off doing something for the world? I know 2 stay at home mothers in orange county with nannies. They have to ask their nanny what the child did at school or where the child is or what the child had for dinner. So sad!

Anonymous said...

I think the main reason ans was hesitant in sharing custody of the child that she knew was lb was because she knew she drank throughout her pregnancy and possibly did drugs. the father having even minimal access to the child would be able to see that and prove that.
howard k stern needs to be charged with something. he contributed to the death of two people. I hope just because he too is a drughead, but worst case scenario it was to align himself for a million dollar windfall.
it used to be women would do seedy and scheming things to get money. more than ever, i see men who position themselve at the bottom of the slide- not to catch the pretty woman coming down-but to grab at the change coming out of her pockets.

A rich woman is a powerful aphrodisiac.

jj said...

do not go off topic.

Anonymous said...

That must have been hard when your baby reached out for your nanny!! It must have been like a slap in the face! I think it's wonderful you were in a position to leave your job. I'm sure there are a lot of moms out there who would rather stay home but cannot afford to.

Anonymous said...

According to a credible source, an employee of Anna Nicole Smith found her in her room in the Hard Rock Hotel and Casino in Hollywood, Florida. The employee pulled back a sheet and discovered that she appeared to have choked on her own vomit.- Access Hollywood 020807

jj said...

STOP!

Anonymous said...

Ok, I won't go off topic, too much. But I have to agree with 211. When A.N.S. married before her son was even burried, it crossed my mind that she would die too, and soon. It all seems fishy to me. I am a mother. I couldn't even think about anything other than my son is dead!!!! The conspiracy theorist in me thinks her new husband planned it all!! I hope he gets caught if it is true. How sad for that baby!!!

Anonymous said...

Sorry jj!!!

Anonymous said...

Evidence removed from Smith's hotel room included prescription and illegal drugs.
On the positive side, paternity hearing will be 830 on friday morning. Hopefully this resolves some things.
Somebody needs to schedule a custody hearing for britney and force her into rehab before she ends up with the same fate. BS seems out of control and headed down a dangerous path.

Anonymous said...

Ah, Hollywood!! Yes, BS needs to settle down. What a dis-service it would be to those children to end up with K-Fed!!! They would be better off in foster care than with that clown!! He is such a joke.

Anonymous said...

Sorry but I don't think that fathers are that relevant to a child's life, touched as I am by the it takes a man to be a dad commercials. I think that ANS, BS & DR all had men in their lives that did not appreciate their children and were more into drug culture. Gradually these women were influenced until they became drug users themselves. Mothers- Stand Strong for your children. Don't believe the BS propoganda. It is up to you.

Anonymous said...

I have seen DR and RS with his child, even though his child is much older and has a solid relationship with HL. HL is a great mother, hands down. So I do find it strange that RS is never around her and her two tiny children. RS's child is old enough that things have to be explained to her. Plus she has school and friends and an invlolved, loving mother. DS's children are not in school and their father rarely gets to see them and never get to see them alone! That isn't a two way street. Which is strange, because she is a beautiful woman and he is an overweight pudge. I don't understand!

Anonymous said...

I just have to say that my husband is very relevant to our son's life. My husband is the foundation of our family. Not all fathers are dads. And not all dads are inrelevant. But there are a lot of deadbeat parents out there.

Anonymous said...

demi moore is a good role model for BS and DR. Go Demi! She got a young, hot guy to take on her and her three children and spend time with them all.
(Now that's a woman and a woman with a great catch!)

Anonymous said...

the majority of father's are relevant. But there are certain things you should not expose your children to. In a perfect world those things wouldn't refer to your husband-but often they do.

Anonymous said...

225, who knows what goes thru their heads!!!! If you're a parent, parent you child. Introduce you pudgy man to your children. Even if the romance doesn't last, don't hide your man like a dirty secret!!!

Anonymous said...

my husband never changed diapers. He wasn't great with the kids until they walked. But he is essential to every part of their life. He has helped them form their strong character and sense of integrity!

Anonymous said...

i don't think she was hiding her man like a dirty secret. she was carrying on like a 13 year old lovesick girl. which is pathetic. one you have children, you have to give up that selfish, self indulgent part of yourself. I think her kids now damn well why mommy is never around. And why mommy has changed. Maybe they even remember that mommy used to be different. Better. Kinder.

Anonymous said...

Those things can also be introduced by many others. Moms, nannies, grandparents, sibling's friends, anyone. How scary. And if it is the dad introducing crap into the childrens lives, boot him out!!

Anonymous said...

the time to be 13 is when you are 13. Women I urge you to be mindful of the examples you are setting for your daughters. Nothing looks as desperate and trite is a lovesick 40 year old chasing a flabby man all around the world. Teach your daughters to find happiness in themselves first. These re piss poor examples of strong women. So sad. I was a lovesick 13 year old and right on thru to 22. I believe in gracefully surrendering the gifts of youth and embracing the next period in our lives. I never thought I would love being a mother as much as I do. It came easily to me. I think women who were raised by cold and mean mothers become their mothers and so on and so on. Break the cycle. Look in the mirror. Do not be your mother.
Okay, I am going to sleep now. Gulp.

Anonymous said...

kuku!

jj said...

cuckooo!

Anonymous said...

When my son was born, my husband and myself gave up all booze. No wine, even. We used to go out every weekend with friends, get all sloshed up, and crawl out of bed two days later to go to work. We lost a lot of friends when we stopped drinking. Today, I am so thankful. Those old friends still hang out getting drunk, leaving their children with who knows!! One even showed me a picture of their child, who is 5, cheering dad on as he chugged a beer bong! How disgusting!! And how sad for DR girls to see their mommy leave them alone, again and again.

Anonymous said...

yeah man, do not be your mother. unless your mother is margaret thatcher, golda meir or joyce dewitt in which case- be her.

Anonymous said...

Ugh. Idiot.

Wait, wtf is joyce dewitt known for except heavy thighs and wearing pantyhose with her short shorts?


hasta manana.

Anonymous said...

Goodnight!!! Thanks for the great discusion!! I'm going to go sneak in my son's room and kiss my sleeping baby!! Motherhood rocks!! I'm tired now, and am going to bed!!!!!!!!! Ok. Must turn off computer...........

Anonymous said...

Cuculus canorus

Anonymous said...

I guess I am out too.

Anonymous said...

cuculus canorus? what does that mean?
hasta manana? and who is joyce dewitt? my sleep addled brain can't compute.

Anonymous said...

OP, this may be my favorite post!

jmt said...

cuculus canorus: I am guessing that is the latin name of the Cuckoo.

Anonymous said...

well well well

Anonymous said...

wow wow wow

Anonymous said...

oh oh oh

ro said...

DR does call up photographers anytime she takes her daughters out! Even if she takes her pet to the vet. But when is the last time she has done that? You would know because there would be pictures and a snide comment on some blog. She is head over heals for that sack of discarded flesh.

Anonymous said...

Joyce Dewitt is /was the brunette from Three's Company the sitcom

pissed off jmt said...

I think the whole basis for this post is crap. I don't care about the rich and famous and how they conduct their lives. The whole Anna Nicole Smith thing made me want to puke even before she died. The strung out skank had sex with so many men that no one knows who her little girl belongs to. If this baby had been born to a poor crack whore in a slum somewhere, no would give a sh*t. So please shut up with the coy use of initials to "protect" the identities of the famous mommies and daddies involved. It's hypocritical and catty. And Wolf Blitzer and CNN for god's sake should be ashamed for doing a 4 HOUR PRESENTATION on the details of her death. She wasn't the damn Pope, or an ex President. And this isn't TRAGEDY. It's some goldigger who took too many meds and died. Too bad, so sad. Get over it already.

Anonymous said...

Yeaow!! Cat claws are out!!!!!!

Anonymous said...

DENISE RICHARDS?!

Anonymous said...

It has to be Brittany Spears!