I have a situation I haven't mentioned, even to my husband. I am trying to "let it go" but it bothers me.
We took the children to Disney to celebrate the end of the school year. Our nanny is a live-in and we paid her her normal pay because she did not go with us, plus $200 to take care of the dogs. I believe she was fine with that.
Over the past weeks, she made some different comments about how her Mom really liked a certain painter. And her Mom wanted an Island just like ours in the kitchen. It just clicked to me, that her mom had been in the house to see these things. She didn't tell me or ask me that her mom would be coming.
The paintings that she refers to hang only in the master bedroom and upstairs study. Those are not areas people would come in to contact with. I have a feeling that she let her family TOUR my house. I recently learned that her Mother, father, aunt and two cousins all came for the same time we were in Disney.
Nothing seems out of order or missing. But I can't imagine she would have her family come out JUST during the time we are away and a) let them tour or house or b) possibly stay in our home? The only way I will know is to ask. Do I want to ask? Because it's apparent her Mom atleast toured the house and even that alone violates my privacy and I don't like it. We are very private people!
I'm wondering if other employers feel this same way. I cannot shake why it bother's me so much, but it does!
We took the children to Disney to celebrate the end of the school year. Our nanny is a live-in and we paid her her normal pay because she did not go with us, plus $200 to take care of the dogs. I believe she was fine with that.
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| Melissa Peck |
The paintings that she refers to hang only in the master bedroom and upstairs study. Those are not areas people would come in to contact with. I have a feeling that she let her family TOUR my house. I recently learned that her Mother, father, aunt and two cousins all came for the same time we were in Disney.
Nothing seems out of order or missing. But I can't imagine she would have her family come out JUST during the time we are away and a) let them tour or house or b) possibly stay in our home? The only way I will know is to ask. Do I want to ask? Because it's apparent her Mom atleast toured the house and even that alone violates my privacy and I don't like it. We are very private people!
I'm wondering if other employers feel this same way. I cannot shake why it bother's me so much, but it does!
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