This story was told to me by a nanny associate. The NK is very careful about giving out hugs and kisses, she will hug her mom, brother, dad and the nanny and that is it. So grandma comes over, wants a hug and a kiss, brings a toy for each kid and stipulates that each child must hug and kiss her to have the toy. Well, the boy had no prob, NG6 stood her ground and said no. But it does make NG fell badly that grandma will not give her the toy. My nanny friend is seething, amazed that a grandma would make her grand child feel badly. the mother is pregnant and just jokes about " a different generation" while DB is away working. My nanny friend complimented the NG, telling her in 6y language about BODY AUTONOMY and that no one should be allowed to make you give hugs and kisses. On this website we support Brave Miss World and Linor Abargil who is a survivor of sexual assault as a very young person and so many young people she and her friends counsel survive this while being unsure that ONLY THEY have the right to decide what happens with their bodies. Nanny - 1000, Grandma - Major Fail!
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