Tuesday
Tears from a Button!!
DB is almost 10 months and he was a preemie. He is a great kid, mostly happy,eats,cute as a button, plays independently. But he does not nap well. Some days he does nap for an hour well if he did not sleep well the night before. I am here 3 days. He will sleep hours if you hold him. I have been trying the last two weeks with a schedule, and MB agreed to stick to it when she is with him. Do you think this will help him? Are we silly thinking we can sleep train him with no tears? It hurts my heart to hear him cry in his crib! I want to cry too! Please help me help my MB!
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ReplyDeleteThe above comment has been sitting here for THREE DAYS. This is disgusting and unacceptable. What excuse is there for this??? I ask that because there’s always an excuse from you guys as to why this happens. I’m dying to hear it.
ReplyDeleteWell, there's not an excuse, it's more like a reason - this blog is very unique in that the comments are not vetted ahead of time. It makes for good interaction usually, but yeah,a troll can get thru here and there. Look at the good news! Over the last couple of days I got rid of a spammer for contact lenses but I missed the above cretin. If anyone sees a moron stupidity like that EMAIL us asap - we do not have time to look at the comments on every post 24 hours a day lol!!
ReplyDeleteI get that you don’t look at comments “24 hours a day,” but it’s not the job of your readers to police the blog. It’s YOUR job. If you can’t do it, then stop. That comment had been there for DAYS. Obviously this blog isn’t your #1 priority (which is clear from the absolute lack of readable content), but filth like that is unacceptable. I’d rather look at a spammy contact lens comment than a vile one, so forgive me if I don’t see that as “good news.”
DeleteAnon, I was utilizing irony when I brought up the contact lens thing, of course I wish I had caught the vile one rather than the lens one. I apologize for throwing you into POE"S LAW ( that is when someone does not understand satire and takes it literally)
ReplyDeleteyou are right that this blog is "A" priority but now our 1st priorities - our living/families/jobs are first - I greatly regret if that is upsetting to you but it will not change, sadly.
We are back to square one - Do we over haul the blog so that LIVE TIME responses are banned, or do we trust the readers - 99.99 % of them to be professional and appropriate.Even if you do not have faith in the readers I do - even if I have to chase down the occasional troll, I can run fast if I do not have to run too far ! ( The running thing was irony again - you cannot physically run on a blog !)
You weren’t utilizing irony. It’s not ironic that you said it was good news that you got rid of the contact lens spam...
DeleteI do understand satire, but alas, this wasn’t satire either. I think you mean sarcasm, in which case, no, I don’t appreciate that. Obviously you can (and will) run the blog however you see fit, but you don’t even check it every day, obviously, and it’s not like there’s so much content that it’s excusable that the occasional nasty comment gets through.
And no, I’m not “upset,” I’d hope your family came before a blog. I just think you need to do a better job at it, that’s all.
We will certainly take all your suggestions under advisement and we do appreciate them, agreed there is always room for improvement ! Have a good weekend !
ReplyDeleteLove how this argument has nothing to do with the post...
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