Received Monday, September 4, 2006
Just know I am in a position to hear your nanny gossiping endlessly about personal details about your family life. I know where your husband works and how much he makes. The nanny talks about you in such a way that suggests you somehow "lucked in to a job" and now have the ability to make more money than you deserve. She also frequently talks about your husband in a sexual way, suggesting that he has made advances towards her and she could have him at any time. She also says you know your sons are smoking pot and drinking but are too caught up in your own life to care and that your husband handles everything related to the boys. Not exactly negligent, but it would burn me up if my nanny spoke about me like this. (I am one of about 30 people who are privy to the details of you and your family). You might want to pull her aside and talk to her about respecting your privacy.
Hey, if you're giving out advice to the mom to talk to her nanny about privacy, don't forget to tell her to talk to her husband about not making passes at employees.
ReplyDeleteAnd about the sons' pot/ alcohol use.
ReplyDeleteAnd why do high schoolers in the city need a nanny? Take the subway....
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