tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post7715015041245548010..comments2024-03-19T03:27:24.068-04:00Comments on I SAW YOUR NANNY: Awkward...Leigh Raymerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18210572527823459842noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-86851502098480321582013-03-07T00:20:42.732-05:002013-03-07T00:20:42.732-05:00You absolutely did the right thing by telling MB a...You absolutely did the right thing by telling MB and getting out of there. DBs are getting more and more creepy these days!Creepy DBs!noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-76517552113733874562013-03-05T18:01:28.604-05:002013-03-05T18:01:28.604-05:00Trust your instincts. You did the right thing.Trust your instincts. You did the right thing.oh wellnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-6259785309521233062013-03-05T17:54:59.528-05:002013-03-05T17:54:59.528-05:00Wow. Things would absolutely have escalated. I wou...Wow. Things would absolutely have escalated. I would have gotten out of there ASAP like you did. The mom probably acted like it was no big deal because she is used to his creeper behavior and has had to convince herself that it is normal.concerned . . . .noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-81886566621293825302013-03-05T10:23:03.256-05:002013-03-05T10:23:03.256-05:00Thank you all for your affirmation. I'm the or...Thank you all for your affirmation. I'm the original poster. I think the reason I felt so unsure in my decision (besides the fact that I just hated to make it for the kids and myself), is that I have a very strict set of personal morals and I was wondering if that was allowing me to over think or read into things he was doing. But I'm glad to know that y'all would have done the same thing in my position! I would not have gone back but it's always nice to hear others affirm a tough decision. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-16735253136714946692013-03-04T18:53:47.607-05:002013-03-04T18:53:47.607-05:00Glad you are out of that house. I agree with othe...Glad you are out of that house. I agree with others that things could have gotten dangerous for you. You did the right thing. <br /><br />Sexual harrassment isn't tolerated on other jobs. Why should it be any different with nanny positions??ericsmomnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-37675191397398304442013-03-04T17:36:17.903-05:002013-03-04T17:36:17.903-05:00You were right to leave! Nannies are for providing...You were right to leave! Nannies are for providing childcare, not being an amusement toy for DBs.Jenya Alexandrovnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14148964624630065730noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-15793772996408851032013-03-04T16:03:22.290-05:002013-03-04T16:03:22.290-05:00You did the right thing. Absolutely.
I don't...You did the right thing. Absolutely.<br /><br />I don't know if the DB was priming you for an affair, prostitution or to be assaulted, but, from what you describe, he was attempting to groom you for something. I further agree with the above poser who stated that MB doesn't see a problem with her husband's behavior and would probably blame you if/ when things go south. <br /><br />I can think of no situation where a man would ask if a woman likes his underwear and he wasn't trying to sleep with that woman. Period. Full stop.<br /><br />If you're uncomfortable, you're uncomfortable. Don't let them get in your head and try to make you feel like a victim. All you're doing is preventing yourself from becoming a victim. redrosebeetlenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-74148845567438562742013-03-04T15:57:28.225-05:002013-03-04T15:57:28.225-05:00You absolutely did the right thing! It doesn't...You absolutely did the right thing! It doesn't matter if anyone thinks your "overreacting", if your uncomfortable then that is enough of a reason to remove yourself from the situation. And for what it's worth I don't think you were overreacting at all! DB was acting very inappropriately and it sounds like it would only get worse from there. It's hard to quit a job when you're so attached to the kids but you have to look out for yourself first! NannyAnnenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-25749517332541312382013-03-04T15:21:12.726-05:002013-03-04T15:21:12.726-05:00You did the right thing. You should never stay in ...You did the right thing. You should never stay in a situation where you are uncomfortable. You should not stay in a situation that could potentially compromise your personal safety. Don't let your former MB guilt you into coming back. She thinks her husbands behavior is no big deal meaning his behavior is likely to escalate and she would most likely blame you. Do not go back. I wish you luck in finding a new job. Please know that not all DBs are creeps.Snownoreply@blogger.com