tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post6885850905210574845..comments2024-03-19T03:27:24.068-04:00Comments on I SAW YOUR NANNY: Mil, the nanny and a little brown pillLeigh Raymerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18210572527823459842noreply@blogger.comBlogger147125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-9484102711237839832008-06-27T07:58:00.000-04:002008-06-27T07:58:00.000-04:00Maybe the nanny poisoned OP?!Maybe the nanny poisoned OP?!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-34771779253926273342008-06-26T05:59:00.000-04:002008-06-26T05:59:00.000-04:00Nothing further from the OP??I'm smelling a rat......Nothing further from the OP??<BR/>I'm smelling a rat..........Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-22774920836783616372008-06-25T12:45:00.000-04:002008-06-25T12:45:00.000-04:00Something has been overlooked here.The MIL was ont...Something has been overlooked here.<BR/><BR/>The MIL was onto the nanny and poured the coffee down the drain.<BR/><BR/>What if she had ingested the 3 pills and became ill with dehyration (very common with a laxative OD)or worse and ended up in the hospital? <BR/> My point is, MIL was proactive, what if she had not been and fell even slightly ill..<BR/> would you all still feel the OP or Jane had no Moral obligation to atleastb report what they know, hearsay or not?<BR/><BR/>The nanny was lucky enough to have a smart victim. Does that mean she should not be held accountable?<BR/><BR/>An emotionally balanced person would not have acted on an otherwise common thought!<BR/>It is called a conscience and anyone capable of putting pills into the coffee of an elderly person,bitch or not, does not have one!<BR/>Cali mom, I bet you would feel different if it were your mom. Please tell me you would feel different!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-6182942489103745102008-06-25T11:53:00.000-04:002008-06-25T11:53:00.000-04:00Something is being over looked here.The MIL though...Something is being over looked here.The MIL thought the nanny was up to something and poured the coffee down the drain.<BR/><BR/>What if she had drank the entire cup,ingested the 3 laxative tablets and ended up in the hospital from dehydration or just plain to sick to function.Which is very likley given her age.<BR/>DID any of you think of that??<BR/><BR/>Just because the nanny got lucky enough to have a smart victim does nont mean she should not be held accountable.<BR/><BR/>And Cali mom, I am sure if someone slipped something in YOUR moms drink you would feel different. Please tell me you would feel different?! How could you not expect Jane or OP to report this to the police?<BR/><BR/>If it were my MIL, who by the way, I despise and she feels likewise about me as I took her dear son away from her, I would have started the car the minute the nanny confessed and driven right to the police station.<BR/>What this nanny did is something that many think about doing but don't because we have what is called a conscience!!! And we have self control and discipline. People without those things are dangerous!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-59326043031008220282008-06-25T01:53:00.000-04:002008-06-25T01:53:00.000-04:00yikes! so many people are being rediculous, almost...yikes! so many people are being rediculous, almost fanatical. CaliMom makes the most sense regarding all the legal stuff. <BR/><BR/>sure, the nanny should be fired. but anyone who thinks that a girl who put laxitives in an old lady's drink is a threat to society is just being silly. come one. she just wanted the old mil to get the runs and poop her pants so she could laugh. <BR/><BR/>some people are so dramatic.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-74219244026298430662008-06-25T01:34:00.000-04:002008-06-25T01:34:00.000-04:002:48Please don't forget, Jane hasn't any valuable ...2:48<BR/>Please don't forget, Jane hasn't any valuable info here BUT, the OP does. Don't allow her to shirk her responsiblity if you're so inclined to go after the person who's job it is to turn this wretched nanny in.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-7123962037163020412008-06-25T00:56:00.000-04:002008-06-25T00:56:00.000-04:00Oh, and you also most certainly can NOT arrest som...Oh, and you also most certainly can NOT arrest someone for not telling police that someone said that someone "might" do something bad to children someday. Which is the most that jane or OP can conceivably be accused of here.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-7891576570205539332008-06-25T00:50:00.000-04:002008-06-25T00:50:00.000-04:00Oy. Let's start at the top for all those screaming...Oy. Let's start at the top for all those screaming aboout how Jane has some "obligation" to report this post to the police because "the safety of children" is at stake. Here's how it works:<BR/><BR/>IF someone had actually confessed to commiting a crime (which they haven't), Jane could then turn over their IP to the police, who would decide if enough suspicion existed to warrant a full investigation. A warrant would then be issued to the service provider of the person whose IP the "confession" came from to release the identity of the account holder to authorities. Once the identity of the account holder was established, police might investigate further to determine if a crime had actually been commited, and by which actual person that had access to the account with that IP address, and if so, charges might be filed. However, it doesn't seem that any confession of any crime has taken place here. Telling someone to not tell her husband that they had slipped a laxative into his mother's coffee does not constitute a crime that would warrant such efforts by law enforcement. And you can't arrest someone for something they "might" do or are "capable" of, so the lament that the nanny "might" do this to a child is irrelevant.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-48188002199221072002008-06-24T18:10:00.000-04:002008-06-24T18:10:00.000-04:00your mil sounds like my husbands grandmother. Out ...your mil sounds like my husbands grandmother. Out of her freakin mind! We would go to dinner at her house (she would cook) then we would have dessert, hugs, kisses, and say I love you. Not 10 minutes down the road the phone would ring "This is your grandmother and I know you took my $50.00! I am calling the police and reporting you!" She did this every time we went over there. It was impossible to deal with this woman. How the flip could we take money when she hides her purse when people go to her house. She even called the police to our house to see if her "books" were inside. They weren't and now the cops think she's crazy.<BR/><BR/>Your MIL is doing this to be mean and spitful. I can see right through her, what an evil woman she is. I feel sorry for you and the nanny. I know what you are dealing with. And you can't do anything but ignore her.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-87119722916898396622008-06-24T17:40:00.000-04:002008-06-24T17:40:00.000-04:00Ro, "some of you have the intelligent of fleas" ? ...Ro, "some of you have the intelligent of fleas" ? you must mean intelligence. If you are going to insult people at least do it correctly. then again, maybe they don't have the "intelligent" to figure it out....Marissa M.https://www.blogger.com/profile/09670316761454871953noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-59655046480108644972008-06-24T15:57:00.000-04:002008-06-24T15:57:00.000-04:00OPWhere are you? you need to update.C'mon, my tv ...OP<BR/>Where are you? you need to update.<BR/>C'mon, my tv is broken and this is the best thing going....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-62602339479166945492008-06-24T15:17:00.000-04:002008-06-24T15:17:00.000-04:00I thought the nanny put the pills in MIL's coffee ...I thought the nanny put the pills in MIL's coffee from the beginning. I think people were being very naive to think that this wasn't even a possibility. Furthermore I think that those of you who are now claiming this post is a fake are being very naive once again. Of course it is real. <BR/><BR/>This kind of thing is not unheard of. When people who lack much power feel treated unfairly, they might react by doing something like this, something that is in their power. Then they have a sense of being one-up on the situation, and they can stomach it better. A similar instance is when a waiter spits in an obnoxious customer's plate before bringing it out.<BR/><BR/>The important thing here is that the OP now knows the nanny's true colors. She cannot be trusted, period. She should be let go no matter what.<BR/><BR/>If it were me, I would tell my husband that nanny confessed to doing this. <BR/><BR/>I can understand OP's desire to keep this information from MIL at the present time. With MIL being as obnoxious as she is, knowing indeed the nanny confessed to doing this might make MIL feel like she can scrutinize every future nanny, that she is justified in doing so, and that she must "approve" of the future nanny that is hired. <BR/><BR/>However, if she wishes, OP can spin the letting go of nanny to please MIL anyway. MIL will be flattered. <BR/><BR/>And, so many people on this thread cannot understand why OP is reluctant to get rid of nanny. It's because at the moment, OP is still very caught up in the feeling of "OP & nanny versus MIL & hubby." But OP, you must get rid of this feeling, because it's really you and your family against the rest of the world. This nanny cannot be trusted, period. Many people cannot be trusted. Now that you know this nanny cannot be trusted, you need to get rid of her. She is not as good of a nanny as you thought in the first place. That's okay. This happens and you didn't do anything wrong in making this mistake (of trusting her and thinking she's good). But you cannot trust her now and must get rid of her.<BR/><BR/>OP, please come back and tell us more about what you decide to do. Keep us posted! Ignore the naive posters who say this isn't real. Thank you for sharing this story with us. It has been interesting watching this unfold. <BR/><BR/>GOOD LUCK! It's hard but you will get through this! ☺Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-57533080399383235982008-06-24T14:56:00.000-04:002008-06-24T14:56:00.000-04:00anon 245..why shouldn't this be thrown on Janes sh...anon 245..why shouldn't this be thrown on Janes shoulders? She runs a website advocating children's saftey?<BR/><BR/>She is a strong, smart and very capable woman. She lives to rpotect and watch out for children.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-11476619439680366732008-06-24T14:52:00.000-04:002008-06-24T14:52:00.000-04:00244..are you kidding me? "This is not a crime"What...244..are you kidding me? "This is not a crime"<BR/><BR/>What planet are you from?<BR/><BR/>Of course the law shouild be involved. There are children involved here!<BR/><BR/>You are just as bad as OP here..her..for not reporting it, lying to her husband and allowing her children to be cared for by this nanny and you for condoning all of it. Shame on you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-1521377335071022472008-06-24T14:48:00.001-04:002008-06-24T14:48:00.001-04:00ro, what if you or someone you knew was going to b...ro, what if you or someone you knew was going to be hiring a nanny and this one showed up on your doorstep? You would never know what potential danger you were bringing into your home. If Jane or the OP turns over the alledged info, allowing the police to investigate, perhaps they would help to prevent a possible tradegedy from happening. If they do find enough evidence against the nanny, she would never pass a background check again and would be forced into a diffrent line of work. She would crack so easily when investigated, She broke down with mom in a matter of minutes. She is obviously an emotionally unbalanced person and needs to not be allowed to work with children .<BR/><BR/>Of all the posters here I am shocked that you condone someone like this nanny be allowed to continue working with children.Otherwise I would think you would want to see this person reported to the police as well.<BR/><BR/>Your flea remark was rude and way off here. I seem to recall you thinking many times over that ,yes, there is that much obligation in the world by many of your recent posts.Advocating for children is advocating for children..period!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-65788672395194846812008-06-24T14:48:00.000-04:002008-06-24T14:48:00.000-04:00I have a feeling the end result of this will be th...I have a feeling the end result of this will be that the nanny will be let go, although it seems that she fits in well with one whacked out family.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-45575028664651595802008-06-24T14:45:00.000-04:002008-06-24T14:45:00.000-04:002:38Sure, maybe they could trace it. I thought of ...2:38<BR/>Sure, maybe they could trace it. I thought of that. But then, if you have a house full of 10 people, then you'd have to prove which one wrote the story .... I don't know. I just don't see how it's possible.<BR/><BR/>And that's to say if it's even TRUE.<BR/>Too many leagalities.<BR/>And it shouldn't be thrown on top of Jane's shoulders.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-4413004572416786002008-06-24T14:44:00.000-04:002008-06-24T14:44:00.000-04:00Seriously?This is not a crime. Not the sort you wo...Seriously?<BR/>This is not a crime. Not the sort you would involve the law with!<BR/><BR/>Grow up!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-78141178825214185252008-06-24T14:38:00.000-04:002008-06-24T14:38:00.000-04:00231 ..where have you been darling?OP already cover...231 ..where have you been darling?<BR/>OP already covered that. nanny admitted to lacing grams coffee with 3 laxative tabs.<BR/><BR/>And for the anonymous poster at 220pm.<BR/><BR/>Every post left on this blog is attatched to an IP number. All Jane would need to do is turn that # over to the police and they could trace it from there very easily. It might take a little searching on Janes part.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-68801847806811533962008-06-24T14:35:00.000-04:002008-06-24T14:35:00.000-04:00Nobody admitted to anything on the blog. The OP sa...Nobody admitted to anything on the blog. The OP says the nanny admitted it to her in a car. Not on the blog. HERESAY.<BR/><BR/>Some of you have the intelligent of fleas.<BR/><BR/>Do you really think there is that much obligation in the world?<BR/><BR/>How about all of the people who pass children by who are in need??<BR/>Simply because they don't want to get involved or offend a parent?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-17752850121978994682008-06-24T14:31:00.000-04:002008-06-24T14:31:00.000-04:00Has any one thought for even one second maybe it w...Has any one thought for even one second maybe it wasnt the nanny? Maybe the mother in law staged it to get the nanny fired. Fits her personality perfectlyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-56644385142536135652008-06-24T14:26:00.000-04:002008-06-24T14:26:00.000-04:00Sorry I called you "crazy-maker." You're right. It...Sorry I called you "crazy-maker." You're right. It wasn't very nice. <BR/><BR/>I was just dying to fit that word into my conversation today.<BR/><BR/>my bad. <BR/><BR/>:)<BR/><BR/>p.s. Love the Jane/911 fan fic conversation! Priceless! :)UmassSlytherinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15647516080217006351noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-76921907556494361942008-06-24T14:20:00.000-04:002008-06-24T14:20:00.000-04:001:45What do you propose Jane do?Police: 911, what ...1:45<BR/>What do you propose Jane do?<BR/><BR/>Police: 911, what is your emergency?<BR/><BR/>Jane: Hi, I'm calling about an anonymous post I received on my site called ISYN.<BR/><BR/>Police: O.k, what are the details?<BR/><BR/>Jane: Well, I got this letter, you see, from somebody I don't know, a nanny, saying they admitted to poisoning their Mil.<BR/><BR/>Police: Do you know this person's name?<BR/><BR/>Jane: No, I said they were anonymous.<BR/><BR/>Police: Do you know where they live?<BR/><BR/>Jane: No, I don't. I said they were anonymous.<BR/><BR/>Police: Well, I don't think we can help you.<BR/><BR/>Jane: O.k., thanks.<BR/><BR/><BR/>Um, how stupid do you think that conversation sounds?<BR/><BR/>There is NOTHING Jane can do.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-19980593335358797052008-06-24T14:08:00.000-04:002008-06-24T14:08:00.000-04:00I too love this Blog site and Jane as well, just a...I too love this Blog site and Jane as well, just as you do Umasslytheryn,I think she does an amazing job but, truth be told, I wondered the same thing? How would I react as the owner of a blog where someone confessed that their nanny admitted to comitting crime and what are my legal obligations?Not to mention my obligations to future children this nanny might care for?<BR/>Never thought about anything like that until this post.<BR/><BR/>I think calling anon 145 names just because she obviously had the same thought was not very nice umasslytheryn. Childrens lives are at stake here, if not theirs ,perhaps grandparents or parents that the nanny becomes angry with.<BR/>I am sure many regulars thought about this too?<BR/>Afterall..the site is set up to protect children and this nanny is a danger and might eventually move on to another family at some point.<BR/>Remember the horrible hit and run blog..everyone jumped at the chance to ream the passerby because he did nothing,but could have possibly saved the child had he acted. So, is it okay to allow children to stay in the line of danger because a mommy is not thinking clearly?<BR/>Just a thought.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-18248945622358609222008-06-24T14:02:00.000-04:002008-06-24T14:02:00.000-04:00Well, count me among those who think this is proba...Well, count me among those who think this is probably a fake. But, on the slight chance that it's not...<BR/><BR/>OP, you need to stop and think for a minute. I know you hate your mother in law, but she is a human being who was POISONED. And the person who poisoned her is the woman you put in charge of caring for your children every single day. At worst, the nanny is a monster who doesn't care who she hurts (or kills -- what if MIL had been allergic?). At best, she has extremely poor judgment. In either case, I would NEVER NEVER NEVER leave her in charge of my children again, nor would I give her a positive reference. At this point, my only dilemma would be whether or not to file charges.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com