tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post3007453448799203267..comments2024-03-19T03:27:24.068-04:00Comments on I SAW YOUR NANNY: Welcoming Baby Number Two to The FamilyLeigh Raymerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18210572527823459842noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-69148135503808800122011-05-11T14:37:29.917-04:002011-05-11T14:37:29.917-04:00How much of a salary increase are you (all) expect...How much of a salary increase are you (all) expecting? I'm in a similar situation, and am curious.CareAndKeepinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02906362634458469643noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-69618200599719858232011-05-10T16:17:58.518-04:002011-05-10T16:17:58.518-04:00I am in the same situation, although my charge is ...I am in the same situation, although my charge is 3. :) I can't wait for baby to come!nanny Knoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-48808595079023351932011-05-10T14:57:30.821-04:002011-05-10T14:57:30.821-04:00It will be fun. Relax :) I nanny for 2 boys aged...It will be fun. Relax :) I nanny for 2 boys aged 2 and 1 and one due any day now and take my own 6 month old daughter to work so I have 3 in nappies and its really not bad at all. 2yr old boy is pretty much potty trained and it took all of 2 days. Can you get your charge a baby doll to look after? I also found it helpful to spend some time around other babies and point out that yes they do cry and need attention but little babies also spend a lot of time sleeping. I've helped to introduce lots of children to new siblings and none of them have ever had serious issues with them! What did help a lot was to have a special bag of toys that was only to be played with whilst I was busy with baby and allowing them to be as involved, or uninvolved as they wanted to be. And don't forget MB should have some maternity leave so you hopefully won't all of a sudden have 2 kids, it will be a gradual assumption of additional duties.Sarahnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-4648171578275355562011-05-10T08:48:43.531-04:002011-05-10T08:48:43.531-04:00Just a tip on the potty training. If you (and the ...Just a tip on the potty training. If you (and the parents) want him potty trained before the new baby arrives, you should start the process months in advance. If he is not in the routine by the time baby 2 gets there, he's likely to relapse for the attention.<br /><br />I'd suggest doing it in the summer. For some reason, I've always found it is much easier to potty train in the summer. For one thing, less clothes. <br /><br />I also suggest that you talk with him a lot about the new baby, well in advance, and maybe even bring a baby doll with you as the date gets closer.NervousNannynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-11715952904333949032011-05-09T22:02:47.040-04:002011-05-09T22:02:47.040-04:00It will be hard, I've been there but things wi...It will be hard, I've been there but things will get better.<br /><br />I'd say the first 6 months look for things to be hard and hectic, after that yall will fall into a routine and it will get easier. I can't tell you how many times in those first 6-9 months that I was on the verge of quitting because things were pretty bad, though in my case it was more to do with the baby crying for 10 hours straight.<br /><br />He will probably be jealous but let him help as much as he wants and can. <br /><br />My charge was 3.5 when the baby came and she HATED him with a passion. I'd ask her to help me feed him and she would tell me no. I'd ask her to hand me a diaper and she would tell me no (usually I don't allow her to act that way but when it came to the baby my intention was to include her so if she didn't want to I didn't force her) I'd ask her to help me pick out an outfit and she said no. I asked every day and eventually she 'caved' and wanted to help a little. She picked out an outfit and she beamed all day because she picked out his outfit. Of course the outfit was too small and he looked like he was wearing highwaters but I let it go :) The baby is now almost 2 and we still have jealousy issues but you learn to pick your battles and know that they will both get it through it.<br /><br />The diapers stuff isn't going to be that hard. At 27 months he can't have that many diapers a day, though you'll change a lot with the baby. There is nothing that really can be said about that. I would put off potty training till after the baby is here and you establish a routine because most kids take a step back when the baby is born. I'd encourage him to go now but don't expect him to be potty trained before his 3rd bdayTCnoreply@blogger.com