tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post2414239437469729332..comments2024-03-19T03:27:24.068-04:00Comments on I SAW YOUR NANNY: The Middle ChildLeigh Raymerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18210572527823459842noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-2528658889355048582015-07-31T13:15:21.267-04:002015-07-31T13:15:21.267-04:00"Train up a child in the way he SHOULD go&quo..."Train up a child in the way he SHOULD go". Teach children at an early age who God has called them to be. Parents are right Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-17758143220579570722015-04-25T17:20:23.855-04:002015-04-25T17:20:23.855-04:00This just makes me sad all around.
I'm sorry ...This just makes me sad all around.<br /><br />I'm sorry you'll probably lose your job for this, but I'd say something. And then I'd educate the public about these parents. :( <br /><br />How cruel people can be. 'My child doesn't fit my perfect standards. Don't let them do what they enjoy doing until they fit the standards.' .. Lame parents for a lame world.Alicenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-15282061734501699062015-04-24T22:39:46.857-04:002015-04-24T22:39:46.857-04:00Doing the right thing isn't only necessary whe...Doing the right thing isn't only necessary when it's easy, but most especially when it's hard. You have got to stand up for this kid even if it means your job. If you don't, you're enabling these attitudes towards this boy, which will absolutely damage him.this_nickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00318803218118396311noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-9278346879068100682015-04-22T20:11:17.901-04:002015-04-22T20:11:17.901-04:00You didnt read the OP did you? The PARENTS are con...You didnt read the OP did you? The PARENTS are concerned their child ia gay and instructing the nanny to perpetuate their homophobe attitude on the child. Angihttp://www.facebook.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-6460228674625256012015-04-19T22:12:28.313-04:002015-04-19T22:12:28.313-04:00OMG !
do we even know if the child is gay for sure...OMG !<br />do we even know if the child is gay for sure??<br />or is it just the nanny maybe exaggerating a little bit?<br />i would love for a nanny to tell me if my son is gay and how i need to 'educate' myself, <br />trust me honey you will be out the foyer before you can say "GAY PARADE" Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-17647852369547709972015-04-19T21:40:00.325-04:002015-04-19T21:40:00.325-04:00Hey Diedre-
Did Mamma and Dadda thump on your head...Hey Diedre-<br />Did Mamma and Dadda thump on your head too hard too often?? this conversation has no place for people like you - go back to your room and play with your video game - oh and yeah listen to mamma and dadda! OR NO MORE BARBIES AND SKIRTS for Diedre or is it Donald?? hahahahahahaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-37006939680041481092015-04-19T20:57:28.471-04:002015-04-19T20:57:28.471-04:00Wow, so if the parents told you to call him "...Wow, so if the parents told you to call him "Gayboy" and thump him on the head every time he hummed a showtune, I guess you would?<br /><br />Asshole.Diedrenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-47528841632842037962015-04-19T19:27:00.716-04:002015-04-19T19:27:00.716-04:00Well said Anonymous !
Always listen to parents - d...Well said Anonymous !<br />Always listen to parents - don't take it upon yourself to "correct" "educate" or "advice" the parents specially in such a delicate matter - if you do you will only get yourself fired and what is that going to accomplish? Zero.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-60661839705323471362015-04-19T19:17:14.410-04:002015-04-19T19:17:14.410-04:00Do as the parents say. There are ways for him enjo...Do as the parents say. There are ways for him enjoy what he likes. Just be creative about it so the parents are happy. Overtime you can mention how there truly is a zero tolerance rule for bullying in schools nowadays and I have seen this with many kids that I work with in the city. Also, it's new York. There are 3rd graders with dyed pink or teal hair and other parents letting kids dress themselves. It is pretty hard to stand out. The kids that have the worst time are the self conscious ones, which I can let you already know he is at risk for becoming. You can focus on his self esteem while still being the parent's proxy. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-6685541479387943492015-04-19T15:32:50.114-04:002015-04-19T15:32:50.114-04:00I have respect for the children. Reread what I sai...I have respect for the children. Reread what I said originally. Did I say ANYTHING about implementing the opposite of the parents request? No! I discussed searching for an option to have a resource help EDUCATE the parents. The parents actions are abusive and crushing. This should NEVER be condoned.Angihttp://www.facebook.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-65248815349441789762015-04-19T13:49:53.241-04:002015-04-19T13:49:53.241-04:00Angie,
Maybe YOU have no business caring for kids,...Angie,<br />Maybe YOU have no business caring for kids, having no respect for parents direction I would not be surprised if this nanny gets the sack following your "LALALA" advice - Im the parent, he's my kid, I DECIDE-<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-88450658329879973552015-04-19T13:26:06.225-04:002015-04-19T13:26:06.225-04:00"Male activities"?! This is whats wrong ..."Male activities"?! This is whats wrong with society. You have no buisiness caring for children. Your behavior prepetuates stareotype and homophobe thinking.Angihttp://www.facebook.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-6335567564080434042015-04-19T12:35:14.750-04:002015-04-19T12:35:14.750-04:00Stay OUT of it - encourage the kid to engage in MA...Stay OUT of it - encourage the kid to engage in MALE activities assure him that everything is ok but when he's with you he can not play with dolls, dress up or bake cakes - Follow he parents approach or they will male you pay - He's not your kid and never will be -Sorry.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-32373813989554930032015-04-19T10:32:15.124-04:002015-04-19T10:32:15.124-04:00So what!! At this age having fun with what they l...So what!! At this age having fun with what they like to do means the most to them. Don't worry nanny you are doing the right thing...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-72755203931599395182015-04-19T10:23:05.059-04:002015-04-19T10:23:05.059-04:00By the way, all of those behaviors he is displayin...By the way, all of those behaviors he is displaying doesnt mean shit....especially the cake decorating....seriously? Um HELLO Cake Boss, Duff and many more kn he food network. The parents are CLEARLY homophobe and are perpetuating the very response behavior they fear. So angry! Wish I could shake them out of their ignorancd.Angihttp://www.facebook.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-14253861340927546242015-04-19T10:20:06.505-04:002015-04-19T10:20:06.505-04:00The parents need an intervention! They are going t...The parents need an intervention! They are going to hurt their son more than any person outside of their household. I work as a specialist... I take on all sorts of families that had special situations or trauma. This behavior on their part will damage this child amd live with him forever. A parent is supposed to love and support, instead they are hurting his spirit. Seek a support group for "Parents of the GLBT Community", talk to the leader and see if you can set up a meeti g over coffee with the parents. This childs future is at risk!Angi, 30yr nannyhttp://www.facebook.comnoreply@blogger.com