tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post1655871403626986361..comments2024-03-19T03:27:24.068-04:00Comments on I SAW YOUR NANNY: Roll in the Trundle Leaves Nanny with a BundleLeigh Raymerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18210572527823459842noreply@blogger.comBlogger117125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-10965157136170197222012-06-15T18:24:45.938-04:002012-06-15T18:24:45.938-04:00FYI
I broke up with my boyfriend. He said he would...FYI<br />I broke up with my boyfriend. He said he would help me out, but it wab't right.<br /><br />I've decided not to tell my baby's father. I just don't think it's worth it.<br /><br />I've moved back in my mom and we're working on our relationship. We hadn't talke really for over a year. She's willing to help.OPnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-89860223148051474512012-05-24T19:24:58.083-04:002012-05-24T19:24:58.083-04:00LOL okay Penny, I haven't heard that stupid sa...LOL okay Penny, I haven't heard that stupid saying in over 20 yearsericsmomnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-48357843851347702042012-05-24T17:09:43.179-04:002012-05-24T17:09:43.179-04:00If you're reading this, OP, I wish you well.
W...If you're reading this, OP, I wish you well.<br />Whatever it is you choose to do. I hope you can find the strength to reach out to someone near you, because you're going to need support.justathoughtnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-27719255595386191032012-05-24T17:07:23.888-04:002012-05-24T17:07:23.888-04:00I also wasn't raised to believe abortions were...I also wasn't raised to believe abortions were wrong quite the opposite.<br /><br />It's easy to sit on your computer and tell someone what to do and have your arguments when you're not the one going through it.just a thoughtnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-37106312640954833112012-05-24T17:04:09.825-04:002012-05-24T17:04:09.825-04:00On the abortion issue
I can see a woman feeling de...On the abortion issue<br />I can see a woman feeling depressed if she was forced or felt forced into having one and didn't really want one.<br /><br />It's not an easy choice.<br /><br />I know I've been there.just a thoughtnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-84028594115366108632012-05-24T15:39:53.585-04:002012-05-24T15:39:53.585-04:00To ericsmom- I DID give my opinion/advice ONCE I d...To ericsmom- I DID give my opinion/advice ONCE I don't need to comment on every single post that OTHER readers write on, especially on a very tough situation. I was merely trying to point out others have turned this into their issue not hers and started making it a name calling, foul mouthed nasty brawl. Maybe you should check yourself before you wreck yourself!Pennynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-90528963691846902302012-05-23T21:30:36.125-04:002012-05-23T21:30:36.125-04:00So what help are you giving her Penny. I don'...So what help are you giving her Penny. I don't see any advice on your side, just bitching.ericsmomnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-84423078471289613392012-05-23T15:28:49.401-04:002012-05-23T15:28:49.401-04:00I think its funny how the OP asked for advice abou...I think its funny how the OP asked for advice about HER situation yet everyone on here has turned this into their issue. No wonder OP hasn't updated us readers on her current status on her problem. How about we all take a step back and give her advice and not bash her or turn the focus on ourselves! Try to put yourself in her shoes! She came to a public forum about a serious issue and I have read very little to see any true help other than everyone has a sharp tounge on here! Geeze!Pennynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-16248492209371089412012-05-21T08:57:23.684-04:002012-05-21T08:57:23.684-04:00Agree with Phoenix on the abortion issue. The guil...Agree with Phoenix on the abortion issue. The guilt many feel is a social construct, perpetuated by people like the judgmental women commenting on this board. You may have a uterus and the decision may not be your personal choice, but it's not your body and none of your business.Ms. Dr. Jurishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17876618355506593095noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-29482495848220500422012-05-20T21:50:50.584-04:002012-05-20T21:50:50.584-04:00In my opinion abortion really only makes the woman...In my opinion abortion really only makes the woman sad if they were brought up to thinking that it was bad. Meaning if a woman goes through life learning that abortion is bad and then she is faced with the decision of needing to have one she will have a moral epsiode and think she is sinning. I honestly feel it is a cultural belief system. <br /><br />I know quite a few people who have had abortions. All for different reasons. The women who were brought up thinking that it was a sin to abort and that they were killing off an actual person had a very hard time accepting it. The women who looked at it as a scientific way and saw it only as a cluster of cells didn't have an issues. It also depended on whether or not the woman actually wanted to raise kids. THe ones who wanted to be mothers had a lot of issues thinking about what could have been. THe opposite was true about women who had no desire to have a family.<br /><br />I knew a girl who waited way to long in my opinion to abort. She was almost 5 months along and she had that kind of abortion where they put the woman in labor and delivery half of the fetus and decapitate it before removing the head. Now that is to me is straight up killing the baby and she should have put it up for adoption.<br /><br />Abortion is a personal decision and one that I will NEVER judge any woman about. She came to the conclusion. If abortion is used as a method of birth control that is wrong. But if the abortion was a decision the woman felt must be made then she did so and her feelings are hers alone. If she feels no regret then she doesn't. If she does then that's ok too.<br /><br />Each case is different. And honestly none of my business but I am pro-choice and I can not even pretend to even try to think what another woman is feeling or SHOULD be feeling.Phoenixhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15540701992730212772noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-78153578788491484922012-05-20T21:43:38.981-04:002012-05-20T21:43:38.981-04:001st of all, stop judging yourself and now look for...1st of all, stop judging yourself and now look forward. We ALL make mistakes. Some more severe than others...believe me, I in no way condone your act of selfishness, but what's done is done, unfortunately...So how can you make this circumstance even the slightest bit fortunate? Start by living by correct principles, and a principle in your situation is honesty. Yes, you will be hated by some and possibly lose a lot, but what you GAIN is empowerment and strength in character by making the CHOICE to face facts, take responsibility for your actions and start to basically do the RIGHT THING. Period. I wish you the best.Tashinalovehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13729095751365435468noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-90888046115050993362012-05-20T21:31:27.409-04:002012-05-20T21:31:27.409-04:00You can show me all the stats how abortion doesn&#...You can show me all the stats how abortion doesn't affect the woman. I don't care what you read on paper. I have a friend that had one eight years ago. I didn't know she had one. She brought it up to me a few times. I can hear the sadness in her voice. She even tells me she knew the sex. Also, how she feels bad for what she did. She does regret it. <br /><br />Another person I knew when I was younger, had two kids. She was a single mom and only in her 20's. I thought it was stupid that she got pregnant again. I told her she shouldn't abort it though. She did get an abortion. <br />She was so sad for so long. I felt really bad for her. I know if she had another child it wouldn't be easy. But abortion is not an easy choice either.ericsmomnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-77487642286212471492012-05-20T21:25:59.461-04:002012-05-20T21:25:59.461-04:00Hey Phoenix I am really sorry for your loss. I ca...Hey Phoenix I am really sorry for your loss. I can't imagine going thru that once let alone three times. Best wishes to you!ericsmomnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-16850504422846987452012-05-20T21:12:08.673-04:002012-05-20T21:12:08.673-04:00how is saying my husband got me pregnant bad? at l...how is saying my husband got me pregnant bad? at least it wasn't some other random man who is still married. cough cough<br /><br />and Umass and I are not the same person. If you would read the older posts you would see that. Otherwise the Phoenix/Umass one person unity would be a seriously split personality with serious self esteem issues. LOL. I don't even know how someone could argue with themselves like that<br /><br />And I would rather be considered one with Umass. She is not a coward who hides behind multiple identities and she stands by her opinions.<br /><br />Other people only wish they had that type of worthPhoenixhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15540701992730212772noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-72921240132411605952012-05-20T20:56:12.528-04:002012-05-20T20:56:12.528-04:00Two things I am getting sick of seeing here:
1. P...Two things I am getting sick of seeing here:<br /><br />1. Posters being accused of being each other. It is totally unnecessary.<br /><br />2. Someone saying in faux disbelief "I actually agree with so-and-so." It makes you look very conceited.MissMannahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15111173519948500730noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-58929984187208225932012-05-20T20:16:50.561-04:002012-05-20T20:16:50.561-04:00Mary K if you hate reading them, why do you read t...Mary K if you hate reading them, why do you read them? You should just skip them. I'm not holding a gun to your head, chief.<br /><br />I admit I can be juvenile. That's true. <br /><br />I'm not Phoenix. Trust me. But I will back anyone up if I think they are worth it.<br /><br />I'm flattered that you think I'm Phoenix, actually. I can think of worse people on this blog to be associated with. For instance, trolls like you.UmassSlytherinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15647516080217006351noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-70342193333302567252012-05-20T17:20:01.349-04:002012-05-20T17:20:01.349-04:00"Researchers now say there is actually no goo..."Researchers now say there is actually no good evidence that having an abortion causes women psychological distress."<br /><br />http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-1091978/Abortion-NOT-linked-depression-scientists-claim.htmlMissMannahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15111173519948500730noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-72728532984967493982012-05-20T16:24:28.059-04:002012-05-20T16:24:28.059-04:00ps to aregular:
are you jealous of Phoenix? You m...ps to aregular:<br /><br />are you jealous of Phoenix? You must be if you made that comment about being the focus of attention. If you have something intelligent to say, please share with us.UmassSlytherinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15647516080217006351noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-73191396312529601632012-05-20T16:23:18.120-04:002012-05-20T16:23:18.120-04:00Rocket Scientist,
You repeated it, so if Phoenix ...Rocket Scientist,<br /><br />You repeated it, so if Phoenix lacks class, you lack even more. <br /><br />you remind me of the kids I take care of: when they say "he said F*&%!" I say, "You just said it too."UmassSlytherinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15647516080217006351noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-70443195468199038652012-05-20T13:46:29.900-04:002012-05-20T13:46:29.900-04:00Phoenix, I think the "Eww" comment was b...Phoenix, I think the "Eww" comment was because you wrote that you let a guy come inside you.<br /><br />That is so gross to write on a blog, especially a nanny blog.<br /><br />C'mon now. Show some class Girl.Rocket Scientistnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-6467350322313235132012-05-20T11:46:45.986-04:002012-05-20T11:46:45.986-04:00Yet another comment thread where Phoenix becomes t...Yet another comment thread where Phoenix becomes the focus of attention...aregularnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-81006025665951493922012-05-20T03:50:30.495-04:002012-05-20T03:50:30.495-04:00The reason that abortion is legal and will remain ...The reason that abortion is legal and will remain legal is that no one can prove that life begins at conception. Imagine if abortion became illegal...then every woman who miscarried a child would have to be investigated, etc. <br /><br />And to say that women who have abortions end up depressed is crazy. What about women who give up a child? Like they do suffer any ill effects?? They also have guilt issues for giving up an innocent child.<br /><br />Anyway, it is up to OP whether or not she wants to abort this baby. It is not up to us. Her decision is between her, her Dr. and God.Brenda K. Starrnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-78480149771604654512012-05-20T02:50:51.292-04:002012-05-20T02:50:51.292-04:00Well just because abortion is Legal does not make ...Well just because abortion is Legal does not make it right. That is my feeling on the subject.<br /><br />I call bull on people that say abortion and depression do not go hand in hand.ericsmomnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-17039305882973784382012-05-19T23:12:48.779-04:002012-05-19T23:12:48.779-04:00i dont understand what i said that was "eeew&...i dont understand what i said that was "eeew"Phoenixhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15540701992730212772noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-57438191561854329112012-05-19T21:41:49.706-04:002012-05-19T21:41:49.706-04:00Village said...
"Women do not abort babies. T...Village said...<br />"Women do not abort babies. They abort fetuses, a collection of cells that cannot live outside the woman's body."<br /><br />Say what you want, but not all women view it as a fetus. I'm also pro-choice, but would never have an abortion myself. I just don't want the right taken away from the woman because it is her body to do with what she wishes. However, from the moment of conception, I view it as a miracle of life.<br /><br />And ericsmom, I too wish OP would come back and let us know whats happening, but I doubt she will. There was too much drama and bashing going on in this thread, obviously with some of it directed at her, for her to feel comfortable enough to do so.Gingernoreply@blogger.com