tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post1528605600804663935..comments2024-03-19T03:27:24.068-04:00Comments on I SAW YOUR NANNY: Adventures in Nanny CammingLeigh Raymerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18210572527823459842noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-74872931446571104352016-12-12T14:38:43.317-05:002016-12-12T14:38:43.317-05:00WE'RE RECRUITING NEW HOT WEBCAM MODELS!
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It's like being in a relationship with someone you don't have much in common with but it serves the main purpose so you continue with it.. I don't know if that makes sense. But it's a good thing she was so forward- she didn't want to waste your time or her time. It's unprofessional that she left so suddenly though. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-63678869665071040832015-08-02T08:40:56.744-04:002015-08-02T08:40:56.744-04:00OP - it's a blessing in disguise that she left...OP - it's a blessing in disguise that she left - she has boundary issues - smoking up your house? doing things with the child not informing you? you dodged a bullet - what else might she do? it sucks that you work and have a child but you need to find the right care giver and this person was a loose cannon - look at it as a good thing that she did not stay and do weirder thingsRBTChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12236958965651282895noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-86051336078215513022015-08-02T02:05:31.888-04:002015-08-02T02:05:31.888-04:00This comment has been removed by the author.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06694060444771987020noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-84612895660031018262015-08-01T20:59:36.136-04:002015-08-01T20:59:36.136-04:00OP you have every right to expect your nanny to co...OP you have every right to expect your nanny to consult you on such things. Maybe not doing so is a cultural thing (in that perhaps it's not expected where she's from, idk), but in this culture keeping parents apprised of what you are doing with their child is standard. If she's unwilling to do so she's not a good fit for you, as you've discovered. this_nickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00318803218118396311noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-20234424578859959462015-08-01T20:11:48.154-04:002015-08-01T20:11:48.154-04:00If it were my child, I would be livid if my nanny ...If it were my child, I would be livid if my nanny was doing baby yoga without my consent. <br /><br />Seems like communication wasn't her strongest suit, even if I did agree with anything she did, I would still fire her for it. If she can't tell me what she's doing in my house, around my child, then she doesn't keep a job. Simple.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-28870021745382932032015-08-01T17:28:18.955-04:002015-08-01T17:28:18.955-04:00It sounds like English may have been her second la...It sounds like English may have been her second language so that can make communication difficult. Otherwsie she sounds like a great nanny!<br /><br />If you want someone just like you, maybe get someone local who speaks English as a first language.<br /><br />Also, many parents would love their children to do baby yoga!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-15343129685496040802015-08-01T14:41:35.979-04:002015-08-01T14:41:35.979-04:00Let me clarify...the part where you questioned her...Let me clarify...the part where you questioned her way of thinking set me off the most. God forbid should she think differently than you. She's younger, she's from a different culture and shes not you...what a concept. <br /><br />AngiAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-34536963923722961752015-08-01T14:17:32.709-04:002015-08-01T14:17:32.709-04:00Its not so much the cams but your narrow mindednes...Its not so much the cams but your narrow mindedness earned you some bad karma that now you are paying. You turned events into something negative, implied accusations and disrespected her. Newsflash, each person thinks differently, especially in other cultures. That should be CHARISHED and learned, not scoffed at. You had a fabulous nanny who was creative and earthly. Hopefully she got a family that appreciates her. <br /><br />AngiAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-34827081619643962612015-08-01T14:12:33.626-04:002015-08-01T14:12:33.626-04:00It sounds like you were uncomfortable with her hab...It sounds like you were uncomfortable with her habits, and she was offended by it. It was best for you to let her go anyway, I can't imagine being a parent at work trying to concentrate on your performance when you're worried about your child and your home. <br /><br />That said, next time you should give it a trial period and make sure to mention the camera. Go through an extensive interview process, bring the person in a few times before you decide. Share your beliefs and or parenting preferences so you know you're on the same page. Might be annoying, but it should save you a lot of time in the future with turnover. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-68695158283687854392015-08-01T10:07:47.348-04:002015-08-01T10:07:47.348-04:00No problem for me regarding nanny cams. As a nanny...No problem for me regarding nanny cams. As a nanny, I love them! Peace of mind for me and parents. They get to see the phenomenal job I'm doing and I am safe from accusations. Win win!<br /><br />Other than giving a baby chips, I don't see an issue. Communication regarding expectations is very important. Baby Yoga is great. My family pays for me and baby to take it. Again it should be done with your knowledge and consent. The chanting is questionable but only because I don't know why she did it.<br /><br /><br />Everything else could have been solved by communicating. Both you AND nanny. Emilynoreply@blogger.com