tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post117027967933211113..comments2024-03-18T15:23:26.084-04:00Comments on I SAW YOUR NANNY: The Children's Place in Philadelphia, PALeigh Raymerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18210572527823459842noreply@blogger.comBlogger56125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-84664602579673914532007-04-01T06:53:00.000-04:002007-04-01T06:53:00.000-04:001215You are giving the rest of us Jewish folk a re...1215<BR/>You are giving the rest of us Jewish folk a really bad name. Sad to see that you seem to look down on everyone not in your "class" Which is pretty funny if you think about how not so very long the signs used to read no jews, No blacks, No dogs. For people that have always had to struggle I find it very sad that you would make us look so awful. <BR/><BR/>Did you forget that ours is a faith made of our deed's?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-58572943367019812552007-04-01T06:40:00.000-04:002007-04-01T06:40:00.000-04:00This is my opinion after reading much of what can ...This is my opinion after reading much of what can be found here.<BR/><BR/>It sounds to me as if the employer's and the employee's have a huge hate/hate relationship going on for the most part. I seriously hope that most employer/employee relation's are not like that in the real nanny world. <BR/><BR/>I hope that this is just high emotions running and that is why the employer's are speaking so frequently of class and knowing your place. Do you really hold the people that are caring for your children in such contempt? (For that matter any of your "help"?) Your English and/or grammar skills in no way shape or form denote if a person has class. Or even education I have known Doctor's that can not right a proper sentence. So it obviously is not telling on your education level either. <BR/><BR/>Do you not see how petty, vindictive, and snide so many of you the self proclaimed better class are making yourselves out to be/look like? <BR/><BR/>I have seen maybe two posts that made me think "gosh that was awful that poor child." For the most part I have seen brief glances into someone else’s day. So brief that the witness has NO IDEA what is going on 99% of the time. Have you as a parent never spoken harshly to your child? Never lost your patience? Yes, a nanny is an employee but given the long hours they spend with your children I think they are filling a role even bigger then that of a daycare center employee. So much of what I see on this site is so petty and paranoid. If you don't trust the people caring for your children then find a new nanny, put them in day care, or stay home with them. <BR/><BR/>I have friends that manage to have both parents working full time yet they arrange their schedules so that one of them is always home with the kid's. On top of that they also home school. If you wanted to be there for your children and work you could do it. Instead to assuage any of the mommy guilt (don't say you don't have it EVERY mother does) you attack the very people you hire to watch your children. Are there bad nannies’ yes I am sure there are, just as there are bad parents, teacher's, infinitum adnausium.<BR/><BR/>If you have such a failure of communication that you feel you need to spy rahter then talk to your Nanny then why do you have that person in your home taking care of the most important thing in your life? For those in doubt that would be your children.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-1170978647549093972007-02-08T18:50:00.000-05:002007-02-08T18:50:00.000-05:00Excellent post 206! Save the reporting for the im...Excellent post 206! Save the reporting for the important stuff. Most of the reporting that I read is crap and good for a laugh.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-1170875182617565942007-02-07T14:06:00.000-05:002007-02-07T14:06:00.000-05:00This is crap. Can you be any more judgemental of s...This is crap. Can you be any more judgemental of someone? Unless you are documenting a clear case of abuse, which if you were I would hope you would be running to tell the authorities and not your computer to gossip to the hundreds of anonymous readers here...<BR/><BR/>Anyway, I digress. I am a full time nanny and a mother to my own son. My charge is a special needs 10, my son is 2.To any observer, I might be nanny to them both, or mother to them both. It just so happens the child who isn't mine looks more like me than mine does. Genetics is a funny thing, so there's proof to debunk that "I'm sure she was the nanny because the kid looked nothing like her..." No one is more sure than I am, that my son is mine and biological, no matter who he looks like. There have been plenty of times I was in the company of my son while my charge was in school, and I would be shopping, sometimes for me, my child,sometimes for my charge- who knows? Can the average outside observer even make that clear connection? There's been times I would tell my son to hush, or be patient, and been shopping for my charge, even if he wasn't present at the time. The bottom line is: Nannies and mothers have a hard job. It is constant, never ending, especially if you stay at home. You are on call 24/7, surrounded by little people, hopefully doing your best to nurture them and instill good values to be a positive contribution to society someday. That is a huge responsibility in addition to the basic resposibility of living for yourself and them. None of us are perfect. We all lose our patience at some point, have a moment that to the average person might not look so perfect. Let me specify: I'm not talking about abuse: like scalding a kid for bugging you...I'm talking about "OMG, the nanny was eating at BURGER KING! or she was smoking a cigarette OUTSIDE of all places!" Unless you walked in those shoes, don't be so quick to judge. A nanny is still a person, who has her own problems, thoughts,emotions in addition to taking care of your children. In most of these cases, I really wonder if its not the guilt of paying someone a meager wage in comparision to the huge undertaking of raising your children full time? If everyone were so judgemental, I would have the attitude of "Stretch marks do not a mother make." Some women look at raising children as a househould duty to be passed on to hired help like watering the plants.They can't stomach to lose their freedom that it takes to raise children, whether yours or anyone else's. Shame on you to have that attitude, taking the time to judge her here, when she is giving her all to YOUR child, more than likely right now as we speak? Talk about hypocritical...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-1170813286219987152007-02-06T20:54:00.000-05:002007-02-06T20:54:00.000-05:00Thanks.5:26 you rock!Thanks.<BR/><BR/>5:26 you rock!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-1170800765381534952007-02-06T17:26:00.000-05:002007-02-06T17:26:00.000-05:00No one thinks you are bad. Settle down.No one thinks you are bad. Settle down.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-1170737881359732192007-02-05T23:58:00.000-05:002007-02-05T23:58:00.000-05:00Believe it or not, I may attend church twice a mon...Believe it or not, I may attend church twice a month but, that hardly qualifies as a fanatic. But, I CAN se why you would think so. And for that I apologize.<BR/>However, I am a lover of all people. Sometimes we tend to be a bit tough on someone that we don't even know. This site is good when it's used the way it was meant to be.<BR/> But, somehow it's turning into a meeting ground for ...let's just say lighten up a little. Give a person a chance. There's no need to bash me. We don't agree but I'm definately not a bad person. <BR/> <BR/> I know how easy it is to sit around and talk about others...I'm tempted sometimes. But, I know better and so should you.<BR/><BR/> Don't worry girls...I'm moving on.<BR/>So you can feel free to speak ill of me to you hearts content.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-1170711502593077462007-02-05T16:38:00.000-05:002007-02-05T16:38:00.000-05:00Believe who?Crazy religious fanatic?yeah, me eithe...Believe who?<BR/>Crazy religious fanatic?<BR/><BR/>yeah, me either.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-1170702149019012452007-02-05T14:02:00.000-05:002007-02-05T14:02:00.000-05:00i don't believe youi don't believe youAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-1170656769344350272007-02-05T01:26:00.000-05:002007-02-05T01:26:00.000-05:00Yes, I have had to ask God to deal with many of pe...Yes, I have had to ask God to deal with many of people that I've come in contact with.<BR/> It's not evil. It's one of the perks of being on the right side.<BR/> I've asked Him to remove Supervisors from my presence because they were "that way". (Done)<BR/> I've asked for people to be shown the light <BR/>(Done) <BR/>Chances are that she already knows this. And doesn't care.<BR/>Why should He protect her when she persecute His children?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-1170654468490367732007-02-05T00:47:00.000-05:002007-02-05T00:47:00.000-05:00No, I don't think so. You honestly need to come to...No, I don't think so. <BR/>You honestly need to come to a point where you look at other people a different way. I made sure to explain why I would ask for such judgement. And I never said anything about you being harmed. You see money tends to turn people into "YOU". Sometimes they have to lose it, before they understand! That's NOT praying for a bad thing...it may be the only thing that can save your life.<BR/><BR/>God (it's okay to print His name) doesn't need me to save my prayers. He welcomes all prayers.<BR/> <BR/><BR/>And how is it that you have such an awsome ability to spot evil? All you had to do was get a good look at that baby girl and "BAM" you knew that nanny was wrong.<BR/><BR/>It's ashame...I hoped that something I wrote would make you think a little. Although it is nice to see that you were slightly bothered by the thought of facing God in the form that you are. You don't have to say...I can tell.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-1170652505687711712007-02-05T00:15:00.000-05:002007-02-05T00:15:00.000-05:00I was thinking more along the lines of save your p...I was thinking more along the lines of save your prayers for the weak and suffering, as there are many everywhere in need. I didn't anticipate that G-D fearing people would pray for bad things to happen to others.<BR/><BR/>Seriously, isn't that more evil than anything posted above?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-1170651480334720492007-02-04T23:58:00.000-05:002007-02-04T23:58:00.000-05:00That's fine I won't pray for you. I'll pray that y...That's fine I won't pray for you.<BR/> I'll pray that you will soon come into some rough times that make you realize that you are only human and no better than the nanny you wrote about. I pray that you will soon face financial hardships and terrible losses that bring you to the reality that all were created equal.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-1170651094731557072007-02-04T23:51:00.000-05:002007-02-04T23:51:00.000-05:00Don't pray for me.Don't pray for me.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-1170651040918194352007-02-04T23:50:00.000-05:002007-02-04T23:50:00.000-05:00I figured as much. Right now you aren't willing to...I figured as much.<BR/> Right now you aren't willing to open your eyes but, you will. (If God himself has to pry them open.)<BR/> I read your comments and I'll pray for you. But, most of all I'll pray for the people that you come in contact with. Especially, the ones that aren't of your race or financial status.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-1170650585212807312007-02-04T23:43:00.000-05:002007-02-04T23:43:00.000-05:001141:really-you aren't that clever.1141:<BR/>really-you aren't that clever.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-1170650490800725132007-02-04T23:41:00.000-05:002007-02-04T23:41:00.000-05:00Like I said...Did she see your white sheet?Like I said...<BR/>Did she see your white sheet?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-1170650399779646752007-02-04T23:39:00.000-05:002007-02-04T23:39:00.000-05:00"Oops! You know exactly what I am talking about."u..."Oops! You know exactly what I am talking about."<BR/>um, no.<BR/>you sound like a serial killer.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-1170650172102143972007-02-04T23:36:00.000-05:002007-02-04T23:36:00.000-05:00Yes, the childrens place is great. This is my firs...Yes, the childrens place is great.<BR/> This is my first time on this site. And I must say that I expected more. There are actually people out there that would make such serious assumptions about a woman simply because she was black with a white baby. Before she realized that fact, everything was fine.<BR/> Those are the people that are a disgrace to all of mankind. Tell me ma'am did she get a chance to see your white sheet?<BR/> Just understand this...God has the power to show you who's God!<BR/> And one day you will face judgement...and I only hope that it is with the same blindness that you judge others. You seem more like a woman who is unhappy with herself and needs to stop worrying about the "Black Nannies" and focus more on where her husband is. Oops! You know exactly what I am talking about.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-1170648412589186732007-02-04T23:06:00.000-05:002007-02-04T23:06:00.000-05:00I can't beleive the OP and her observation that ma...I can't beleive the OP and her observation that many nannies don't work hard! To the poster who doesn't have a day off to herself: I didn't have children. You did. That was your choice. I'm a nanny and a doctorate student. I work 60-65 hours/week and I love the family I work for. After a 12 hour day with an energetic toddler, I may be off duty, but I'm too exhausted to do anything. I spend all day, everyday, going to classes, going to playgroups, and walking the two or three miles between them (often with the family dog in tow). As a result I am in amazing shape and also amazingly exhausted by the time I get home. Many of us attend classes, read up on new developments in early care and education, and generally bust our bottoms to make sure that our charges are getting the best care we can possibly provide. We learn baby sign language, we cook organic baby food, and we teach your children, often spending more time with them than their own parents do. Sometimes we have to run errands for the parents, those may run the gammut from Neiman Marcus to (yes, I know, this will be hard to hear...) The Children's Place (imagine what children in Third World Countries are wearing to bed tonight) and all along the way, we are merely getting along as well as we can. Just like you do when you're managing a schedule and running errands with your children. Yelling is never ok, but to assume the worst about nannies in general is highly disrespectful considering the committment we make to your families and your children.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-1170525986646441482007-02-03T13:06:00.000-05:002007-02-03T13:06:00.000-05:00I agree that Children's place is great: I have a f...I agree that Children's place is great: I have a five month old and I have gotten some great stuff for her there. I am also a big fan of Target.<BR/>Why would a child get an allergic reaction to clothes from Walmart? I believe that allergic reactions come from the material and not from where it was bought. If you wash the clothes before wearing (which I always do no matter where I buy it) and make sure it is made of material that is not an allergen (cotton for example) there is no reason that a child should have a reaction to the clothes just because they were purchased at walmart.<BR/>That being said, it does sound like the poster is a bit racist. Nannies shop all the time for other kids who may be in school.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-1170516806198431062007-02-03T10:33:00.000-05:002007-02-03T10:33:00.000-05:00This is a case of a woman who thinks that Blacks s...This is a case of a woman who thinks that Blacks should stay in their place and speak to massa's babies as nice as possible. BTW, I have scored some incredible deals at Children's Place. You can get great things that aren't a lot of money at all! You are one of those idiots that have no domestic skills so you have no idea how to score bargains. You buy the crap at Walmart taht gives your kid an allergic reaction for the same price as Children's Place.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-1170481799458431162007-02-03T00:49:00.000-05:002007-02-03T00:49:00.000-05:00I don't believe you.I don't believe you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-1170476112066160392007-02-02T23:15:00.000-05:002007-02-02T23:15:00.000-05:0010:23-um, that they need to have good help.(all th...10:23-<BR/>um, that they need to have good help.<BR/>(all those windows)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32916951.post-1170472992134648072007-02-02T22:23:00.000-05:002007-02-02T22:23:00.000-05:0012:35 PM Ignorant and uneducated is in fact redun...12:35 PM Ignorant and uneducated is in fact redundant, and come to think of it, also trite. You don't sound like a Harvard grad. yourself. You know what they say about people who live in glass houses.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com